Until recently it was thought that the only way for humans to reach the climax was contact, either in person or with someone else, yet there is a theory that it is not so necessary, right?Use your brain to get it. .
Researchers at Rutgers University have found strong evidence that female orgasms occur not only through stimulation, but also through thought, as electromagnetic resonances demonstrated, in which parts of a woman’s brain who volunteered to light herself prefers to have sex alone. to be accompanied.
- The woman stated that she did not want to be with men because of the possibility of contracting some disease (mainly AIDS) and therefore participated in an informal workshop where she learned some techniques to reach orgasm using her mind.
- Her thinking.
Just before that, in the early 1970s, the relationship between this feeling of orgasm and the brain in women was documented. The leader, Dr. Ian Kerner, discovered that the most powerful sexual organ in the entire body is not in the reproductive system, but higher in the brain.
So women can reach orgasm? You have to practice a lot and focus on what you think and imagine, much more than physical stimulation as you’re used to, many of those who have tried it say it’s difficult, but not impossible.
Without a doubt, it is something that is present in the collective imagination, but that not all women dare to reveal, research has shown that these women had already done it in bed while they were having sex, that does not mean that they have always done so. done, but at least on one occasion.
There is some ethical debate around this investigation, some argue that it is wrong to lie to their partner and on the opposite side there are those who argue that they did it to make the other person feel better, neither the opinion is good nor the bad, but different.
The research did not ask why this decision was made, but psychologists can identify some reasons, among the most common explanations are: lack of communication in the couple, excessive need to please the other, emotional limitations, etc. They depend on the woman, because the man also takes care not to stimulate, stimulate or put his partner to bed.
Of course, many women think that men are to blame for faking their orgasms, but we could say it’s an equation 50-50. It is true that this is because there is no communication between the couple, because otherwise there would be no problem in saying what should improve or what they would like to see. they do. This also worries the man, because it’s not always like that?the tastes of your wife or girlfriend.
Women don’t always know what excites them or what they prefer between sheets, or they may know it but they don’t communicate it to the couple, they may also have talked, but the other may or may not be able to meet how to do it. So, I insist, intimate conversations are very important.
I don’t mean that women are bad at simulating an orgasm, or that men are negative for not offering what they need, but it’s a lack of connection, feeling, chemistry, or whatever you want to call it.
It is true that men are simpler on almost every issue in life and that they may not need an instruction manual in total privacy, for them everything is easier, any woman can agree with that.
Don’t be afraid to talk like adults, without fears or taboos, think it’s good for both of us to have a good time in bed, as it will affect your relationship, if she thinks only of satisfying her boyfriend, partner, lover or husband with a false orgasm, it’s also a personal decision, but you also have to see it as a way to hide, not to tell the truth , if you don’t face reality.
Sex is practiced in two and you must remember it at all times, then you can find the solution so that this does not happen, for whatever reason, always together and above all respect everyone’s time. The woman needs more minutes to reach orgasm and for man it can be a burden, however, for her to really get to the top, it must be her impulse, with several very effective techniques.
And if it’s not possible for the woman to reach orgasm, pretend it’s not recommended either. Why? Because it’s a way to fool your partner, nod how “exaggerated” it may seem. Once, you can even add a little spice to the relationship, but it stops having that value when it’s repeated over and over again.
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