You have to select the friendships to maintain, the feelings to keep, the environments in which you delay, the struggles that are worth fighting, the loves that deserve to be nurtured, select, because no one will be able to do it for you.
The more time passes, the more mature we have, the less we are willing to leave people and useless things at hand. We are used to taking too long with us suitcases that are not ours. We tend to support, not to say, people who don’t add anything, don’t add, I don’t like it and I don’t like it. You have to select.
- You have to select friendships.
- We can even be friendly to people.
- But that shouldn’t mean everyone can walk with us.
- There are people who are stagnant.
- Who don’t progress.
- Who don’t have the slightest notion of collegiality.
- Those who don’t even remember that we exist.
- Those who are not able to perceive when we’re right or not.
- Those who don’t look beyond themselves?.
Feelings need to be selected. We cannot help but feel sadness, guilt, loneliness, discouragement, because we are truly emotional swings by nature, however, it will be our duty to combat exaggerated delay in a painful terrain, in which we do not skate, without advancing, without learning. , without the strength to change, to improve.
You have to select the environments. Although we cannot help but go to boring and lifeless places, because of personal obligations, we can always choose where to rest and strengthen our love, with real people, with sincere smiles, with reciprocal feelings, no one has to stay where the air seems thin, where you do not breathe easily, where your heart is silent.
You have to select the fights. Throughout our journey, we will have to face several battles, with relatives, with disgruntled, with ourselves anything, so we must know which clashes are worth fighting, otherwise we will waste energy unnecessarily, explaining ourselves to those who do not. They want to listen, to give ourselves to those who do not know what gratitude is, in search of those who never seek us, even knowing where we are.
It is necessary to select the kind of love that we have, we cannot accept superficial loves, half-hearted, that do not seek us, do not return us, do not recycle us, accept the love that hurts, that hurts, that makes us cry, that brings misunderstandings, anxieties and loneliness means to be content with the incomplete, with what has never been, is never and will never be true love , where we all deserve to live. Fullness.
It is not an exaggerated demand, freshness or utopia, but the just value that we have in us, that we must never test, for lack of self-esteem. Loving oneself will always be our greatest shield against all and all those. who try to make us feel diminished, to renounce our happiness. Select, because no one will be able to do it for you.