One of these days, as I was walking down the street, I heard that I wanted to talk to two guys where one alerted the other by saying, “Dude, you can’t be trusted anymore, these women today are all with a kid on their backs. “I was outraged to hear such a sexist and prejudiced speech. Beautiful and just society, a woman who has children, whether divorced or single mother, does not deserve to be loved, respected and appreciated.
This fact reminded me of a woman I had the pleasure of meeting, very intelligent and beautiful by the way, she has always dedicated herself to her family, a loving and faithful wife, but in one of those walks that life takes, her husband abandoned her. she with three young children and decided to “enjoy life”, if I’m not mistaken, one of them was a newborn at that time. Her life turned upside down when she found herself alone, defenseless, with dependent children and many bills to pay.
- I guess it shouldn’t be easy to hear from the person you love that you’re no longer worthy of them.
- That you won’t be happy with anyone else just because you have three children with them and no man will appreciate a woman like that.
- It must be hard to be smug by his own partner.
- The father of his children.
- A father who does not pay a pension.
- Does not support his children and does not even mind fulfilling his role as a father.
- This woman broke up.
- The beginning or that one full of children as many call her?He didn’t stay on the field.
- He left with all the courage to fight.
- Overcome difficulties.
- Defeats.
- Humiliations and change things.
There are many women in this situation who are much more sexist than many men out there, true warriors, worthy of taking off their hats, who deserve all the respect and opportunity to be happy again, unfortunately the prejudices of many, like those I do. who are on the street, deprive them of this right. Life often steals dreams, but many still insist on their prejudices by taking away their dignity, their respect, their right to start over and to be happy.
It is very easy to point the finger, judge, condemn, ridicule and blame the other. It is really difficult to be in the place of the person, it is to have to overcome barriers that make the past the school of the present. It’s hard, to overcome every day, to leave prejudice and open your eyes and heart to the truly precious.
Being divorced, separated or single mother is not a crime, the crime is not being able to love someone who has suffered just for loving too much.
Text written by Irailde Santana. Learn more about the author’s work by accessing his Facebook page.