Today I’m going to tell you the precious metaphor of my spider’s six legs. I invite you to continue reading to discover the most magical pillars that each of us can and deserves to have in your life, for our personal growth.
The metaphor is that each of us is a small six-legged spider that holds us, I feel that each of them and are just as important, these 6 legs are our base, which keeps us upright and helps us move forward with joy and joy. enthusiasm, allowing us to move forward or backward in our process of personal growth.
- It is one of the most necessary pillars of the social life of every human being.
- Sharing full and sincere relationships fills us with happiness.
- Allowing us to learn every day and advance our inner growth.
- So it is important that we take care of our friendships taking into account that they also take care of us.
Work your dignity in a balanced way, trying to set aside pride, make an effort for those who deserve it, and learn to assert yourself and say no when you think it’s convenient.
Value your environment and be careful not to maintain toxic relationships, which only cause emotional loss and unnecessary suffering. More importantly, quality is much more important than quantity in personal relationships. Remember this.
Love is the basis of all vital movements. We want to feel loved and desired, always from the basis of a true feeling, full of authenticity and goodness.
The most important love of all is the one we must feel for ourselves. If we are in a relationship with the person we love, we must take care of them and understand them. To enjoy a healthy emotional relationship, it is necessary to cultivate patience and good communication.
As we mentioned in the previous point, we often let go of our own personal needs, being aware only of the people around us, not forgetting is the key.
Spend time with yourself, do the things you love, don’t think too much about what others expect from you, and spend at least 30 minutes a day doing what you love most.
If you know how to love yourself, you will love the people around you. At this stage, physical and mental health is vital. Play sports and spend time with nature, let yourself connect with your inner being and generate the hormones of happiness and realization.
The time has come for all of us to realize that we are not the center of the universe and that family is a fundamental support in our lives, take care of them. We know there’s a “black sheep” in every family, but it’s definitely the person who visited you when you were sick or offered help when you needed it.
Give your family the benefit of unconditional love and stop complaining about one or the other. If you stop to really think about the feelings around you, you will realize how lucky you are. And remember, even in the worst situations, you have this. opportunity, remember.
You eliminate everything and create a new account. Why don’t you give some people a new chance, try and who knows, you’ll be surprised how dear they are, how much they contribute and how there is no more unconditional love than that of parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents?is one of the most important legs we generally devalue. Don’t wait any longer to know when people start leaving your life.
This leg will be summed up by asking you the following questions related to your work and career: “What do I like?”, “What am I worried about?”, “I am motivated in my work”.
You’re really going to live for what you don’t like?This is the question that always comforts us and opens doors for us.
We all deserve to live according to our dreams and achieve the goals that our hearts demand, if you are able to dream, you can achieve it and you have all the tools for it.
Dare to be happy without spending hours and hours complaining, the fact that you’re older doesn’t mean you can’t start studying what you love, otherwise you can realize everything you’ve decided to do thanks to the experience gained. for so many years of life.
As José Mujica, president of Uruguay, wisely says: “When you buy with cash, you don’t buy with cash, you buy with the time of your life that you had to spend to have that money. ” great reflection, have you noticed that we do not care or dedicate ourselves to small moments of leisure? Do we only live to work?
It is very important to learn to appreciate our time to do the things we love, with the people we love, and to continue to do so, strengthening our personal growth.
Don’t just think about work and suffering. Let’s be honest, we are in this life to learn and, above all, to enjoy the most precious thing you have to offer us, you must be responsible for your work and career, but don’t forget to prioritize yourself. with all that life has to offer and enjoy it.
I hope that this precious metaphor fills your heart with fullness and optimism, being the support of your personal growth.
Even if you think one of your legs needs a little more care, don’t worry, this doesn’t mean the rest of your legs also have problems or need a lot of care.
The 6 legs allow us stability. Everyone helps each other, don’t forget, don’t worry about taking care of them, giving all your love and, most importantly, your spider heart.