We only stay in difficult and sad situations when we have some of our attachment to this circumstance, there is still an identification, positive or negative, that prevents us from leaving, of taking new flights, we end up trapped and enred at the junction and we see no way out. However, we are not always aware of the actions we are doing, or what they can cause us. We often act blindly, but doesn’t that stop us from suffering the consequences?
I notice that some people believe that “loving” someone gives them carte blanche, a free pass, the right and permission to do whatever they want in the name of that love, even to create embarrassing situations, “install huts. “This usually happens when they are not paired or abandoned, for some reason or motivation.
- You weren’t begging or begging.
- This should be natural and spontaneous.
- Love cannot be weight or imprisonment; should be light.
- Well.
- Nice.
- It’s not something that makes us suffer and cry.
- When that happens.
- It’s certainly not love.
Worse than the one who asks for love is the one who knows the love that the other has and shames him, manipulates him, uses the feeling against those who feel it, do some even use him as one?Weapon against the one he loves, sometimes driven by vanity, immaturity, selfishness and a desire for control. Finally not? Let the person who loves you go, don’t let them go.
Other? Why are you still not sure, aware and sure of your own feelings and the decision made?Would you rather cook? The ones who like it in a bath-marie. Somehow, here they say a little thing, throw another one there, make a gesture, but never clarify the situation or never tell the truth to the other. Do you really know, once the truth speaks clearly, bluntly, to the other person?he’ll free himself and probably leave.
Is it even inhumane, malicious, to use this strategy for? Stop someone because I’m still not sure they like it or not?Surely he’s not who should? Who has this love, but it is this one who is trapped by the lack of position and definition that doubts his choice, since such a subject still creates expectation and nods with false hopes, convenient signs, to the other side, if you no longer like it, if you are tired, if I do not want more, say it. Be honest, brave and talk. Give the other person a chance to handle their own rejection. It’s going to be hard, but it’s going to be an hour. What doesn’t happen and doesn’t hurt is the humiliation of putting yourself in the eternal expectation of each other’s decision. It’s cruel.
I realize that people who adopt this attitude towards each other never take into account or respect the feelings of those who love them, let alone the human being at the other end of the relationship, continue to make it moved by the navel. yes, for a long time, several times, until they’re sure they’re ready, that the exact time and time have come, or that they’ve found someone more interesting. Then, without warning, they leave.