Have you ever stopped to think that you’ve suddenly used phrases that can hinder your growth or even bring more suffering into your life?It is very simple to understand, but difficult to implement Verbs?Be? Et? Be?They can harm your life when, in a way, they define you: you as a human being, you with the way you report, your life, everything is intimately linked when you misuse these two words.
We change every second, so how can I tell that I’m something? When we define ourselves in a certain way, we find ourselves trapped and conditioned to act in this way. On more drastic occasions, this definition ends up being your stage to yourself, not allowing you to be or act otherwise.
- Many times we treat the situations of life as definitive.
- As if joy or sadness endured forever.
- And so the idea of the permanence of life prevails.
- That it does not exist.
- Everything is over.
- Everything is over.
- Everything goes.
- Even life.
- That’s as “impermanent” as we are.
So if you say: I’m fat, I’m ugly, I’m skinny, I’m weird, I’m boring, I’m poor, I’m not loved, you automatically tell life: this is what I am!There’s nothing to do. And if life grows, you also begin to believe and feel comfortable not wanting more, for not changing your path, because it is what you think you are. And I guarantee you, the only truth about you? It’s just that you’re editable. All the time things happen, inside and outside of you, that project you to life in a different way, and then you can wake up in a bad mood and suddenly have that good feeling in the mouth of your stomach that brings immediate happiness and changes the rest of your life. your day, do you know why this is happening?Are you right?
Even suffering can be experienced in a healthier way when responsibility for your condition is assumed. Our body has mainly water, so why not sink it?Because we stay attached to certain forms of life, when we can live in different ways.
This phrase so pronounced for the end of any situation: it will happen, everything will happen, so we are, we pass and, by the way, we are, we are sad, we are happy, we are skinny or fat, we are ugly or beautiful. None of this defines your way of life or defines you as a human being, because nothing is eternal. No joy, no sadness.
So when you suffer for this love that has gone through your life and it has brought you more bitterness than sweetness and you start pronouncing:?How happy I was with him!? Think about it, you were so happy and the feeling was true because those moments were happy, but now it’s gone and you’re in a phase of pain, it will also pass and one day the sun will return to your garden.
Start changing the way you face life, don’t get caught up in the conditions you’ve set yourself, understand that the finesse of everything serves to move your life and not to park, get out of your comfort zone, set goals, prioritize dreams, it’s all part of a life planning that may or may not work, and that may or may not change during the course , but you’ll never know what it would be like if you let the definition of someone like that or roast follow the course of your story.
From today, it is unfinished, starts again and does it again as many times as you need, changes, whether haircut, mood, love, temperature or city; If you’re not happy, change. If you’re happy, stay until you want to change. This is the lightness of life, and already Clarice Lispector said: “Desciframe, but don’t conclude. Can I surprise you?” That’s who we are, waiting all the time to surprise and avoid suffering.