Never regret what you’ve already done, the courage you put into every action to achieve your goal or your dream. Regretting what you did simply because things didn’t go as planned is absurd and a waste of energy and time. If all goes well, would you regret it?
If the answer is no, you should not regret trying, of risking, what really generated this repentance was that you did not count on frustration, many times our expectations are not met. That’s life.
Failure should be used as a learning experience, or even to retry the experiences gained.
To repent is to remain in the comfort zone, to dream of what might have been, in this case we stop trying, we do not fight to achieve our goals, we settle for a life without emotions for fear of frustrations.
But frustrations and disappointments are part of life, sooner or later they will come to you, even if you don’t take any chances or if you don’t jump into the void with a new project, on the other hand they appear: With family, with your partner, with your life, with work?Even a lack of risk in itself can become a source of frustration.
All the decisions, all your actions, everything you dreamed of, everything you fought for, define who you are today, where you want to stay and where to lead your life. No one should regret who they are or how they chose to live.
Success is overrated in today’s society, and it seems that only those who, even risking, end up succeeding are valued.
We value the results very much, but we do not value the progress, sacrifice and effort of all those who strive to achieve their goals, we know that sometimes everything goes well and sometimes we lose the bet.
This essence is what really matters: to have a goal that drives us to continue living; love him, risk our money, our time and work for him. In fact, it’s all that motivates and strengthens us, rather than focusing solely on the outcome. The dream of building everything we want is what makes us get up every morning, makes us feel a little happier.
Therefore, you should not repent of what you have done; Repent of what you didn’t do for fear of failure. It’s also not about punishing yourself for paying too much attention to your fear, but it’s a good idea to realize that you’ve let yourself be carried away by negative emotion. happened and was replaced by what might have been.
Don’t worry, we can learn. We are not perfect and it is very common to be guided or manipulated by certain emotions, but can we learn from them. ?Turn the table around, and decide to fly once and for all, no matter what!
A mature person has dreams and expectations, but he also has his feet on the ground. They are people who know each other very well and are accepted unconditionally; know exactly how far they can go or not.
They know their limits and potential and, on that basis, develop a plan and can do so because they know they have sufficient control over the situation.
When we talk about control, we talk about everything we can really control, of course, that is, what depends on us: frustrations, actions, decisions, tolerance?
They are brave people who always have their minds in the present, but who imagine a better future, want to eat their lives by chewing hard with their teeth instead of trying a little, winceing in disgust before trying a new taste. until: “If we are here to live, then we will live. If things go wrong, will we see how we can handle them?”
This doesn’t mean they’re “empty heads” who don’t know what they’re doing. Actually, impulsive people are also very afraid. Their maturity and emotional intelligence make them courageous, but also responsible and prudent.
The key to success is that they are not terrified when they think of possible failures, in fact, because they are realistic, they do not perceive them as likely, only as possibilities.
What are you waiting for to be a little braver?Do you think you should always stay on the beach without going to sea?You’re here to live, take a chance, make all your dreams come true and discover the magic behind them. And if you fail, you can learn and resume your flight. regret what you did again; just regret what you didn’t do out of fear.