The more we mature, the less we care about certain things that we perceive as a waste of time and some people who just don’t change for anything or anyone else. Maturity brings that tranquility and acceptance that makes us less fearless, less nervous, because we learn to save time, without the typical rush of young people who want everything for yesterday.
To mature is to worry about what really matters, who does not refuse to review what he said or what he did, anyway, which is likely to work. People get tired of pushing a broken button, insisting on what they don’t ‘ We see in the future, giving importance to the useless opinions of those who specialize in disturbing the environment and harming the patience of others.
- This is because we come to understand that each person will conceive things in their own way.
- Doing exactly what they have inside.
- Nothing more and nothing less than that.
- There is no point in expecting people to expect something beyond what they can offer and the more time passes.
- The better we discern what everyone can and cannot.
- Accepting the limits of what surrounds us.
Not everyone is prepared to listen to what we have to say and receive what we have to offer, so over time, we have begun to direct our energies to fertile lands, ignoring the emotional aridity of selfish people, who cannot see beyond. limits. We lose the fear of change, of boldness, of leaving things and people behind, because we are no longer afraid of mistakes. Making mistakes can be good, doing it right.
As we mature, we realize that we will not always be right, that not everyone will love us, that the world does not revolve around our heads, we understand that we are tiny near the greatness of the universe, but that our actions can reach countless people, whether when we do things right or when we make mistakes, and that allows us to feel empathy more often.
One of the most useless attitudes that exists is to sweep the leaves while it is still rolled up and, likewise, it is of no use trying to argue with those who do not listen, nor trying to please everyone, because no one can be unanimous. In any case, looking to be well with yourself is the best, because that way we will be prepared to receive the best and the worst of all, keeping the useful and throwing away what is not worth.