How many of us, in our quest to heal a broken heart, have not embarked on a new relationship?Unfortunately, the maxim of healing one love for another is not always valid for everyone, in the same way. Abandoning you to a new partner, without recovering from the pieces left by the previous one, can rarely work, because love requires integrity and integrity, things that hurt souls are not yet ready to offer.
Any rupture hurts us, whether it’s us who’ve made the decision to break it, or when the other side is in absentia. We are always faced with a heavy burden of defeat and guilt, having separated ourselves from someone, which makes us more vulnerable to making bad decisions. It’s hard to get it straight out, when everything inside seems to collapse, because, in those moments, we’ll usually act only with emotion.
- Acting alone through the feeling of retaliation means wanting to hurt the other.
- So that no one realizes how miserable we feel internally.
- Fighting doesn’t work.
- Because nothing we do in the heat of emotions.
- Without putting our senses in order.
- Won’t be coherent enough and won’t help us in a certain way.
- Any action with a grudge will only bring pain to everyone involved.
The fact is that we are starting a new relationship just to give satisfaction to others about what is not even a certainty in us, it probably will not bring us the desired results. Worse, we can play with the feelings of someone who has nothing to do. with our emotional problems No one deserves to be used in this way, such as a luxury refaction rim or an exhibition trophy.
Problems will accompany us wherever we go, wherever we are and who we are with, that is, without ending what happened, nothing that comes then can be seen as a real reboot. Repeating requires a light and free soul, without outstanding problems, without Descents, without accumulated pain, because the new one always arrives, but it reaches those who have really decided to continue with their hearts open, having left behind what is no longer possible.