“A peasant had a small farm where he did agricultural work and took care of some horses. One day, the foreman came to inform him that his best horse had fallen into a well. The man went to this place and tried, in different ways, to get him out of this place. As he failed, he had no choice but to throw dirt into the well to bury the horse. In doing this job, horse 40 demonstrating his will to continue living 41st, not let himself be buried. Instead, he took advantage of each shovel to make the well shallower so he could get out. Until you get it?.
What attitude do you usually adopt in life?
- Are you like the horse that uses the earth to climb up and out of the hole.
- Or is it the opposite that it lets you swallow under the circumstances?If your initial answer was “yes”.
- You should know that this is one of the characteristics of strong or resilient personalities.
Individuals who, despite setbacks and difficulties, have the ability to stay strong, get out (or get out of the hole) and resist, are characterized by a strong personality, it is as if they were immune to life’s bad luck, thank you to his strength.
The difference between a strong personality and others is that you can accept what is happening differently. Strength is needed where others see weaknesses or weaknesses, and move on.
According to a psychologist at the University of Chicago, people?Strong? (But not to mention muscles or physical building, but the mind) have several characteristics in common: they are engaged, controlled and oriented towards what they want; in this way, they can not only enjoy life, but also leave honorable what fate holds for them. has prepared for them.
People with strong personality can also overcome adversity and daily setbacks faster, such as the death of a loved one, divorce, unemployment, or lack of money.
As has been said in the past, if you have a strong or resilient personality, like the horse of history, your power of commitment is very great. He firmly believes that he can move on, that every inconvenience is a lesson for the next time, and that there is no harm that is not good.
This commitment can be implemented in many ways and reflected not only in difficult times, but in all walks of life, it will be easier to solve anything, be practical when making decisions when others need to think seriously and even help others. deal with what’s happening to them.
Second, a “resistant” person has a self-control deeply rooted in his life. In other words, he’s motivated by what he can do and give of himself.
And as a third feature, strong people take on challenges, don’t fear not integrating or betting on something uncertain.
Changes are welcome, investments (not just cash) are a good way to change a reality they don’t like and understand that chess really learns.
Do you think you have a strong and resilient personality?In what everyday situations can you say that?If you haven’t harvested this kind of personality yet, you just need to grow something different Remember that we can all improve!Propose that!
“Does strength come not from physical capacity, but from an indomitable will?
? Mahatma Gandhi?