Romanticism doesn’t open the car door, it opens the doors of the heart. Romanticism is not carried by the hand of the other, it is about containing emotions and taking care of them. Romanticism doesn’t recite Shakespeare’s poems, it’s about creating your own poems.
Romanticism is not a great conqueror, nor a woman who dreams of princes riding white horses, is to believe in someone real, who loves you even when you are in a bad mood, even when you are not in full shape, and when you are comes to your life without horse or carriage, but with that spark in your eyes that makes structures tremble.
- Romanticism doesn’t say the right thing to do; says the wrong things the right way.
- It is to be sincere and kind.
- Especially at the time of criticism.
- In the most difficult times.
- When everything seems to fall apart.
Romanticism speaks in a normal tone to the person you love, when you want to shout, is to know how to overcome situations of disagreement and disagreement, silence, so as not to break the bond of trust and respect on which one’s love is based life. It is to wake up in the morning and smile for no reason, for the simple fact that we can contemplate each other’s faces, another day. It’s knowing how to stop, when you want to destroy like an avalanche. It’s caressing when the other needs it, even without knowing it. It is also escape when the need is a moment of intimacy, tranquility or simply, when one wants to be alone.
This means being the friend at the time of the conversation, the companion at the moment of loneliness, the lover at the time of passion, is to be oneself without costumes, artifices and lies, even at the beginning of the relationship. great chivalry.
Romanticism these days is not the perfect man or woman of dreams. It is not to save the child from danger, nor to be this fatal woman, with long legs and long hair floating. Today, the prince can walk and be a real idiot. The princess may have short, pointed and indomitable hair, however, she possesses an absurd and elegant femininity. Attributes of real people, not fiction.
It is not necessary for him to let it pass, but to allow him to move forward.
You don’t need to go to the kitchen in the name of romance, if you don’t like cooking; he must admire him for other qualities, such as working as much as he does, being a mother and a woman, he is not required to pay all bills, so he can also pay, that payments are common, for shared purposes: he is romantic and altruistic.
It is to call your imperfect wife in the middle of the day, telling her that you miss her and that you will have dinner today; is to give your spouse unexpected kindness, especially when you are nervous or depressed. This means being in the middle of traffic or in a boring meeting, wanting to be home with your loved one. , is to love your family, not by obligation, but because it is yours and contains traces of you; is to want to have children with you, to experience this sacred connection for the rest of your life with the person you love most; is to shake hands when you say something important and be careful when you have something to say (without watching TV); it is to love you tenderly, not only physically, but spiritually; it’s like loving to laugh together and not separately, it’s traveling with the other everywhere, even to the ends of oneself.
So you consider yourself a romantic? It’s not hard, it’s not complex, just a little personal effort, a touch of empathy, patience and good heart.
If something’s missing? Ah, of course, a great love, complete and definitive, no doubt.
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