Times change and bring new hopes and crises with a special and unusual seal until then: heartbreak, a heartbreak that is part of the day-to-day social landscape, but is often confused with another aspect. Is it a routine or a love?
Large masses of people are affected by this terrifying and contagious wave. What’s going on, collective madness, has love really become more fragile?Perhaps we have lost the psychological resources to face the difficulties that have always existed in the couple or perhaps it is fair?The routine that finally prevails, damaging the relationship from within, taking up the life of a couple.
- The couple’s life often go through a number of particularly critical points.
- We are talking about crises of growth.
- Affinity and maturity of the relationship.
- You could say that they are like measles and that.
- When defeated.
- They strengthen the bond.
These “normal” crises, once resolved, point to a stronger bond, to a deeper understanding of the other person. Above all, they teach us to manage the personality and psychology of the couple well, in search of mutual reconciliation.
Some of these crises end badly because they cause or indicate distances that the couple does not want to solve or does not know how, so they end with the most drastic cut, the good news is that these purposes can be avoided by being able to detect the most important needs for both at this particular time.
“Normal crises,” once overcome, help build a stronger bond, a deeper knowledge of the other person. “
When the couple enters the routine, in monotony, life buys tickets to become insipid, uniform, boring, substance-free, boring, if they suffer is because they do not have the necessary incentives for union, those incentives ensure that the shared experience is lived and projected into the future with a good dose of illusion and illusion.
You have to put imagination, grace, small goals, mutual perks and shared plans in this common life, this is the way to escape the routine. The most noteworthy thing here is that there are no big problems, what is missing are resources to avoid the routine, the tedious and gray fall of the days copied with each other.
When one enters the routine, life becomes long, endless, fatigosa, face, unbearable, unimesting, indifferent, his prognosis shows moderate pessimism if the right means of avoiding collapse and rupture are not urgently applied.
“When the couple enters the routine, into monotony, life becomes insipid, uniform, boring, substanceless, boring. Are you losing the much-needed incentives?
When the couple enters the routine, everyone’s life is very affected, not that your partner is no longer attractive, it is that life as a couple is no longer attractive, as a result, your life is also not satisfactory since you share most of life. time with your loved one.
There is a feeling of tiredness, boredom, boredom and emptiness. When you see your partner, you feel “butterflies in your stomach” but at the same time you feel weak to continue. If you do different activities as a couple, everything makes sense again and hope reappears, improving your mood.
When there is heartbreak, we do not feel this feeling of boredom or emptiness, the feeling is more like a disappointment, of which there is no turning back, it is as if something that was always there suddenly disappears without a trace. you can even feel sadness and compassion for the other person.
Love is a rewarding feeling par excellence. It captivates positively and is accompanied by a strong attraction, a tendency to be and to share life. Lack of love is quite the opposite. It is not rewarding and takes us away from the person we love, when the love arises, therefore there is no commitment or desire to share life with that person.
“When there is heartbreak, you do not feel that feeling of boredom or emptiness. Does the feeling look more like a disappointment, than there is no turning back?
If the heartbreak appears, the only way out is the breakout, there is no turning back, no more than we try, the heartbreak can signal the end of a stage and it has to be accepted. The routine appears, we still have options. The routine can be overcome, but the deamor is more difficult.