Say “I can” before I say “I do. ” Perhaps this phrase seems strange in the face of everything we are used to hearing, however, it is important to realize that everything we want cannot be done, that there is not always a lack of power, if we think about the future to see if we can do what we want. you want, reality-based planning can succeed.
Wanting isn’t always power. Therefore, we must adapt our goals, value what we have, take our heads, with our hearts, not despair, you cannot achieve everything you want, no matter how intense your desire, so let us try to anticipate. what I can from what I want, to see how it works for us.
- With this phrase we do not mean that we must settle in and not fight for our goals.
- Of course.
- We must not stop fighting.
- We cannot believe that we are at the top.
- We must always seek to overcome and always mark ourselves.
- Higher limits.
- However.
- You have to have your feet on the ground.
- Know our weaknesses and know what I can before I say I want to.
Perhaps our greatest quality is to be aware of our limitations and to be realistic about it. Unreal goals and false positivity are our worst enemies, because we still think we can go further by simply thinking positively and imagining a wonderful ending, when in fact what we need is to devote work, time and motivation to what we want.
The limits are personal and non-transferable, besides adaptable, maybe my limit today is a certain size, but I need to know that I can get more, now I have to think of a formula to achieve it. More time, more effort? More organization Where can I use my assets?What aspects should I pay more attention to? This work requires the motivation of the “I can” but also a personal job of self-knowledge and my limitations.
If I do not know how to define the territory, I can fail, when I can define my goals and adapt them to my reality, I have power over them because I make them realistic, that does not mean that I do not need positivity. to achieve them, but also objective work, hard work. . . makes me face the challenges. But ‘I can’, because I have the tools to do it, it’s just up to me.
To believe that positivity is to think that everything will be well is not real, positivity means not thinking negatively, studying the remaining options, not anticipating all the bad things that can happen, positivity is not to stop working and find the motivation to look beyond what we have now.
Positivity drives us, but it leads to nothing. Is the button activated?, but we still have to act to get what we want. This position gives us nothing; however, it brings us closer to that distant goal or gives us a smile when we think we’ve arrived.
Positivity, when it is realistic, is our best companion, but when it drifts into excessive optimism, it becomes one of our worst enemies. If we are able to become aware of our limitations, we will create our own possibilities and we will be able to face the self. I want to ‘, but always working from the’ I can ‘.
Therefore, the right, most adaptable and healthier phrase for everyone could be: wanting is a necessary condition for what I can, just as power is a basic condition for what I want.