Psychological palliative care in the face of a terminal illness
The act of seduction has been associated with something misleading or, on some occasions, incorrect, but sometimes done unconsciously and unintendedly and, moreover, almost always for the purpose of mutual sentimental benefit; in fact, to love someone is to be seduced by that person.
- To improve our seduction before others.
- We need to know what we do and why we do it; expressions make us uncomfortable.
- And they don’t work.
In his book “The Art of Love,” the poet Ovid has already given some clues on how to find the woman he loved and how to get her love, and recommends that we practice seduction in specific places:
? Parties, theaters, forums, celebrations, dinners, New Year’s Eve, etc.
Ovid and Kamasutra, the classics of seduction, give some recommendations to arouse each other’s interest:
? Make valuable pleasures (whether sentimental or material)
? Don’t contradict each other in the first meetings.
? Sit or dance near the person.
? If possible, arrange a meeting so that the person knows in advance our interest.
Seduce to arouse the interest of others for us, arouse curiosity, make others want to know us, make them feel good in our company, seek us and love us?
Use seduction not only in bars and clubs; Although these are good places, we can meet someone of interest elsewhere.
Seduction is not used to get a sexual partner or a stable relationship, but also to maintain it, people are never the same, they change over time, so we don’t always want the person we’re with, what’s cool is also discovering every day the novelty that exists in the other person.
Seducing means generating interest and turning it into desire, it is getting someone to look at us positively and with curiosity, it is about constantly settling in your imagination, growing your desire to meet that person at all times. The possible.
It’s not. In fact, some people who look good don’t take care of other aspects of their personality, which become deficiencies.
It’s about valuing our virtues and hiding our faults, even if we accept them.
But there’s only one chance for a first impression
? Personal hygiene needs to be taken care of.
? Have a lively and healthy appearance.
? Make small changes to the image if necessary
The limit is to remain ourselves. Other people’s tricks can also be adopted, but with our personality, it’s not about copying anyone, it’s about being the best version of ourselves.
Someone’s photo may appeal to us, but only the expression of their body and the dynamics of their body will make us totally attracted or selfless, this is closely related to the unconscious world, and each of us is attracted to specific patterns of behavior.
You have to be careful with impulsivity and also with a very passive attitude.
You can keep trying to realize that maybe the person wasn’t very receptive and not the right circumstances.
Maybe your skills aren’t as developed as you think, maybe you started with very aggressive lenses and didn’t try well, you have to consider your mistakes so as not to repeat them, you have to practice more.
Anderson (1968), at odds with simplistic visions of men and women, explains that there are fundamental characteristics in people who succeed in love: he says that the most valued people are sincere, honest, understanding, loyal and trustworthy, while those who are the least appreciated are liars, petty, false, cruel and dishonest.