False self-esteem
Some people seem to have high self-esteem and talk all the time about their accomplishments and accomplishments, when things go wrong, they always find external justifications and they don’t recognize their responsibility, they know everything and they don’t allow themselves to learn from others. In fact, they have low self-esteem and low self-esteem, they are insecure people trying to hide their fears.
- They think vulnerability is the same as weakness and forget that we all make mistakes.
- This is no reason to feel bad or worry about what others might think of us.
- Not taking responsibility for the mistakes made prevents us from making a sensible self-criticism.
- Be malleable and apologize if necessary.
People with high self-esteem don’t talk much about themselves and their accomplishments, but they hear and rejoice in the achievements of others, they learn from them, with humility and without fanfare. Mistakes and hits are both sides of the same coin, when they’re wrong, they know how to apologize. They are not justified, but they accept and learn from their mistakes, this strengthens them and makes them better.
Occasionally it is good to stop and reflect on ourselves: how we do it and how we want to proceed. Recognizing that we are not perfect is the first step towards high self-esteem. When we make mistakes, we learn from mistakes and move on. Maintain an internal dialogue and take responsibility for your choices.
It is important to notice how we feel when we reach a goal, success increases our self-esteem. At that point, we feel happy and proud, but make it a healthy pride. Don’t feel omnipotent or at the center of the universe. If we think we’re more than we are, we can fall into ego traps.
In the film “The Peaceful Warrior,” the wise Socrates tells young Dan something we should always remember: “You are neither better nor worse than anyone else. “This shows high, healthy self-esteem. We’re neither better nor worse than the others. , we are different, we have different talents that can develop and help us to increase our self-esteem, build healthy relationships and a happier life, it is necessary to exercise self-esteem, looking at the world with positivity and enthusiasm.