Freedom does not exist without detachment, and detachment is not the absence of love.
Jealousy, fear, guilt, anger, complex ?. To what extent can all this contaminate love?We are talking about these loves that impose conditions, for which we hope, by which we turn away in the hope that one day they will give us what we need.
- But in this life there are few things that take us by surprise.
- We are able to quickly predict that what we so desire will never reach our hands for a love that makes us wait.
Then come the shadows, the 7 plagues, the sadness, the tiredness and the disappointment, and when the absolute desolation begins to reign, it prevents us from moving forward and makes us abandon ourselves, forgetting self-love.
The sad reality is that we have abandoned our emotional terrain and our self-esteem to cultivate meaningless loves, those who stand in the way and destroy. We don’t get the undergrowth out of our way and that has consequences.
It will not be possible to get rid of sadness and pain if we do not act in the opposite direction. It is better not to cover your eyes when something is wrong; simply recognize, detect, and feel the environment around you, know where you’re headed.
In fact, the way of understanding relationships and love is very relative, wanting to be a free soul does not mean giving up love, in the same way there are people who, because they love each other too much, turn the relationship into something toxic. painful.
There are many love stories lost by pride, forgetfulness or simply abandonment, but today we will talk about these relationships poisoned by the black widow of love: emotional subjugation.
Therefore, when love becomes pain and suffering, it is time to abandon it and begin to recycle, that is, in all relationships emotional health and self-esteem must prevail.
You may think you need the person, it may have contributed to many things, but there are times when you should take your blindfold off and begin to understand what’s bothering you.
That’s right, we don’t love each other until this love is necessary, this inner need arises when someone or something fails, because only then do we see our needs.
People always think that the most painful thing is to lose someone you love, but the truth is that you get lost in the process of loving someone too much, forgetting who you are, and it’s much worse.
When we have already given everything for a love we did not deserve, we begin to love each other, this wounded pride makes us touch the sparks of our inner love, we question what we have failed at, we seek new opportunities for how we can feel better and how we will move forward. In other words, self-love enters through the head, not through the heart.
The sadness and emptiness that arise when we let go what doesn’t make us feel good is just a reflection of the desire for what we could and wasn’t, what we wanted and it didn’t happen.
If you let in the sadness without fear, it will lead you to final liberation, independence, life without resistance, without jealousy, without censorship and without the guilt that pollutes you.
So, if we get on the boat of polluted love, it is better to look for something that will help us float in us, because above all, our life is lived with no one but us.