Your life has been marked by many moments, such as those in which you felt bitterness or those that brought you disappointments that you did not expect, moments related to circumstances, but also with people, who may have changed relationships in less time than the second hand . is repeated. They did it without measuring the forms or the consequences, while we tried to take care of the world.
People who even took advantage of his moments of reflection to stab him in the back, then had to suffer all the damage, even trying to minimize it, and the other person took advantage of this space of reflection to end it all. Ira, feeling silly, look how he wanted to protect you both, he was the only one who was hurt.
- You realize that by wanting to do as little damage as possible.
- Someone has “set you up.
- “Without the slightest degree of decency.
- This causes anger and bitterness and can even make it stupid.
You have every right to feel that way. You can live with that, but you don’t know when it will happen completely, so on a day preceded by so many others and without realizing it comes the expected moment when you think, “I’m glad I got rid of God. “
Stop because it’s a “special” moment: farewell to anger, indifference and humor are welcome. That smile of relief when you realize what you got rid of is highly appreciated in your psychological health bag. To savour it, you must first act cleanly, be hurt, and then hold a grudge for a while.
You went through what it took, it was the tenth of the lottery that you played as the one who dares to play and also loses. This solitary or accompanied smile is the jackpot.
Handling disappointment or betrayal is not easy, nor is it easy to get stuck in a roundabout that always leads to the same discussions, prolonging a discomfort out of habit, out of pity, is to enter a cycle of endless stress. it is not toxic “in itself”; It is not true, there are relationships that are or become that, identifying and eliminating them is not an easy task, especially if you intend to do it as a mature person.
Never feel fragile about trying to get things right and being betrayed. In the future, will you know how to drink a “detox juice”? Without being intoxicated first. You will be able to detect signals that do not interest you before they really hurt you, you will learn to close the doors without making noise and without anyone being trampled, you will also learn to recognize that the rest of the world has the same right to do the same with you.
Wanting to do things right in life says a lot about us, finishing 40 years of marriages, childhood friendships or leaving your first career opportunity, which has long since ceased to be an opportunity to become a punishment, are hard mountains to climb.
However, there are people who don’t even bother to do it carefully and put themselves in the lead, cheating in a despicable, rude and cowardly way, never feel ridiculous for wanting to do things right, not for playing dirty. anger, but let her sink.
Will any disappointment turn into a detox? Future. To the next sign of wear and tear, without further ado. No more prolonged and harmless relationships. You don’t want to do everything so well to do it in the best way possible: absolute indifference.
What happens to the evolution of others is not your problem, because even the most ruthless people can be lucky in life. Think about your situation regarding what you want to be and recognize the value of staying on that path in the face of the temptation others have fallen into. This, and not another, is the best point of reference so that, despite the disappointments, do not abandon your sensitivity in the necessary farewells.
We will not deny that it is difficult to detach successively from certain people and habits throughout life, you may discover that you are losing your identity and that each blow will seem like a bottomless abyss, we do not know if ‘We are actually changing for better or worse until one day we begin to remember what emotionally massacred us in a different way.
Suddenly, in an instant, we recognize ourselves as survivors
We don’t feel strange about ourselves. We look at our hands, feel the weight of our legs and realize our presence, even without asking for help and without anyone helping us, we stay awake, we understand that in the lightness of being lies our full potential to be truly present. .
We don’t need anyone’s visa. However, in the eyes of others he is a loser, we have already won the battle that could only be won internally, we burst out laughing, alone or with someone. Above anger, one feels this pride of having acted face to face and in tune with the person he is.
The true smile is drawn only when it makes you feel at peace with yourself, despite the difficult circumstances and danger of being betrayed, because it eventually happened. Now, your smile is that echo because, even though someone let you down once, you didn’t ‘ Don’t do the same to yourself.
You know how the process works and it has a lot of value, the one who laughs the last laughs better because he doesn’t make fun of anyone, he looks from afar at how those who do harm sink deeper, almost without oxygen, into the darkness. themselves have invoked.