We are the product of our upbringing, the circumstances in which we live, the experiences we must have, interpersonal relationships and culture, etc. Until we decide to be a product of ourselves, freeing ourselves from beliefs, roles and fears that correspond to the past.
Since we have been children everything we have lived and told is recorded, however, we can change that if we want, since our life belongs to us, no one can continue to expect more from us than ourselves, since we are adults, We decide how we want to live and it probably will not match what others expect of us.
- Since we are born.
- We receive an education.
- A culture.
- And we are open to a type of interpersonal relationship.
- That definitely marks us.
- We program ourselves according to what we receive and determine how we will play the different roles in the different sections.
- Of our lives.
Mental programming is what we receive and that has been deeply etched in us, about how we should relate to others, what they expect from us and what the world is like, so as a result we have an idea of how we should be. , based on what others transmit.
Without a doubt, from an early age, we receive an image of ourselves and the world that will then, as adults, serve us to connect in a certain way. Stereotypes and prejudices are ideas about a person or group that have certain characteristics, and we learn that through what we receive and what we experience with the adults around us.
Roles are behavioral attitudes that are determined by the situation in which we find ourselves, and we have learned that from a young time too, above all we learn to develop the role that will most represent us in life, since it will undoubtedly be the role with which we will most identify.
In many cases they have taught us very clearly what others and what the world expects of us, but we do not know clearly who we really are, and it is because we have not yet discovered our deepest skills and weaknesses and, therefore, we can say that we grew up with low self-esteem, because we know perfectly well who we should be, but not who we are or who we want to be.
Therefore, many times we do not know each other, we unconsciously choose to be what they expect of us, and for that we make great efforts to please others, that is, we try to fulfill the role that has been taught to us ever since. our birth.
However, it is possible to leave the role that has been transmitted to us and discover who we really are, projecting ourselves into what we want to be. To do this we can work with mental reprogramming, that is, reject from within what “should be” and replace it with “who we want to be”.
Without a doubt, it is a conscious and subconscious work, which consists of going further in ourselves to discover the programming that we receive from a very young time, but that now we decide that it does not make us happy.
“Your biggest competitor is the one you want to be. -Jim Taylor-
To be aware, to discover and change the roles that have been passed on to us, as well as the beliefs about the relationships and the world that have been shown to us, is to let oneself be, freedom is the ability to decide for oneself. , without feeling compelled by what we have been taught, that is, getting rid of what?and replace it with what we want.
“You are very powerful, as long as you know how powerful you are. Yogi Bhajan?
We all have the right to be ourselves, because the only way to be happy is to get rid of what others want from us and build our lives only according to what we want it to be.
No one can deny us the right to be ourselves, except ourselves. No one decides how to play our roles, as we are adults; no one should say what we should be except ourselves. No one can impose their will on us, because we are free to decide how far we go in our lives.
“Always remember that not only do you have the right to be an individual, but you have an obligation to be an individual. “Eleanor Roosevelt?