Many of us live in a routine or existence in which planning life is critical and thinking about the future is a daily task.
But I’d like to ask you this wise question: do you get angry when something goes wrong as planned?In such situations, the first answer that creates our mind is to think that there is no solution.
- “The future has many names.
- For the weak.
- It’s inaccessible.
- For the fearful.
- The unknown.
- For the brave.
- Is this an opportunity?.
- ?Victor Hugo?”.
Living thinking about the future and hoping that everything that happens to us is perfect does not give us time to stop, reflect and understand the lessons offered by each situation or experience of our daily lives.
So, and to free your heart and mind, it’s good that sometimes things don’t go the way you want and want them to.
There are times when everything you used to think or trace to the millimeter doesn’t go as planned, this moment can allow you to do your best, something different from the usual.
“We prepare men to think of the future as a promised land to which heroes come, not as what anyone can achieve at a speed of sixty minutes per hour, it doesn’t matter. Clive Staples Lewis?
Focusing on making your life perfect doesn’t allow you to develop the best version of yourself. You may have long forgotten that the present in which you live, the now, is much more important and vital than the future you build every day.
It can also happen that the past becomes your best friend, if you think about it, you will inevitably see why you did things and how you did them, in the face of countless other options. At times like this, I like to think that everything happens for a reason.
Life shows us, every minute, every second and every breath, a precious and wise life teaching.
Something that, if you don’t act differently and dare to get out of the routine or rather get out of your comfort zone, you will never let you discover.
The people around me feel that life is hard, but what do you think?
Life challenges us sincerely simply by putting ourselves in different situations, as if it were a prism of precious crystals, to test ourselves.
Your only mission is to observe each facet, its own facets, full of colors and bright sparks, each with immense potential and talent, that will solve the experience in question in a different way than usual.
With that in mind, I urge you not to get too angry when something doesn’t happen the way you thought or wanted it to happen. Luck may have happened this way, you may need to learn something first or do it differently.
You can apply it to any facet of your life and not just when you think about the future and plan it, remember that life is about learning from every detail, slowly and regularly.
Duel at times when your actions and experiences don’t go as you wished will only prevent you from realizing that you will be offered something better.
Being in the here and now will help you choose the facet of the prism that you prefer, the one that best suits you right now and that makes you the one that really is your best version.
“The present is the necessary result of the whole past, the necessary cause of the whole future. “Robert Green Ingersoll?