“To irritate all that represents authority, children devote considerable energy to antics. They don’t want to appreciate the seriousness of our outlandish concerns, while we forget that if we imitate children a little bit, our worries may not be that far away- (Conrad Hyers)
Take a moment to think how many times a day something or someone makes you smile.
- Now think about the moment when you didn’t really laugh.
- From the depths of your being.
- A laugh that comes out at full throttle.
- Which can’t be contained.
Children laugh on average 400 times a day. An adult, 15 to 20 times a day.
What happened on the road that caused us to lose that ability?
Most of the time, maturation is associated with gravity, we consider laughter to be a fundamental feature of childhood and, subconsciously, classify laughter as childish behavior and create mental patterns that lead us to abandon it.
In this way, we fall into the formal equation . . . seriousness. And on this path we lose the sense of humor, the laughter, the ability to surprise ourselves by something.
The fear of not being professional or non-professional makes us hide our laughter, nothing more out of reality. Because it’s one thing to make fun of everything and another to have a sense of humor.
Paradoxically, laughter is the language of the intelligent. In the end, humor is intrinsically transgressive, with humor we can break the molds preset by dogmatic society, it gives us other prisms, another way of seeing things.
So, when you have different points of view, you can appreciate all the nuances.
Learn to look away and don’t take everything too seriously, laughter puts the situation in perspective, allowing us to see things from a different perspective.
Imagine an image: if we get too close to see it, we won’t be able to enjoy everything, everything, we’ll only see one part. The same goes for problems. With laughter, can we see him?The picture? From every point of view.
Save your sense of humor!
Be Authentic!
A true sense of humor will be your best basis for managing your emotions.
Laugh at the frustrations, the people with the wrinkled forehead. Laugh at his idiocy, his insecurities, laugh at his jealousy.
And he comes in with a crazy face. No more dramas, no more scarcity, no more regrets.
Laugh at his stumbles, his mistakes, laughter frees, unloads, flies?
Have a contagious laugh that releases stress and negativity.
Smile left and right. And even more so for those who look at it seriously. Maybe glue!
Look for someone smart with whom you can laugh like idiots, the best relationships are built with a sense of humor, laughter gives us a sense of closeness and intimacy with the other person and there’s nothing more fun than laughing with a friend about something that only you understand, even if they can seem stupid to others.
Courage that makes you laugh. Even better if they laugh, because it does more for you than any tranquilizer or antidepressant.
You have to live your life in humor
Remember that sometimes laughing is the most serious thing to do.