Crying is that involuntary action that does not need to be done to exist: do you externalize tears (and tears are representation), but also internalizations and, for that, there is no possible image?There’s only one lump in the throat. Either of these two ways of crying leads us to despair and drowns us.
The screams we can’t express are often the truer. You don’t know exactly how it happened, but you’re stuck in how you feel and you don’t think you’ll be able to escape. Suffering is so intimate that you can’t tell people the difference between their limits and yours: your limit is tolerant, but you always end up overcoming it.
- “Real pain is indescribable.
- If we can talk about what distresses us.
- We’re lucky: it means it’s not that important.
- Because when the pain falls upon us without palliative.
- The first thing that separates us is the word.
- I mean this pain that’s so great that it doesn’t even seem to be born from within.
- Which is as if we’ve been buried in an avalanche.
You’ve felt pain in your own skin and you know what it feels like when something breaks your heart: days pass and months feel like years. This will to live that shines precisely because it does not exist. Silent nights listening to your cries?
The moral of history is that anxiety is identified with the value of a tear; it’s the essence that you appear when you cry or when you see someone cry, it’s likely that, much more than a smile, a tear brings people to life, and it’s quite possible that seeing someone else’s pain was the direct bridge to get to know them and also make themselves known.
Are you sure you can identify with that being and not be, want and not be able to?That’s why you get along with people who open up and feel the same as one day: tears give us the certainty that we are human in different ways. feeling, but we have the same feelings.
Are all ripe fruits undone? We were born crying just so we could breathe later. Then I know you can do it! Gradually, the ball in the throat disappears, leaving behind only learning and overcoming.
The pain will only show that you existed. He’ll walk you wherever you go, but the day will come when he’ll only be spent. You will have overcome the shipwreck and then you will realize the reality of Paula Bonet’s words: “Sometimes we cry so many tears that whales could swim in it, but you can’t let them drown. “
You won’t drown either, even if the water reaches your neck. You’ll remember there’s always going to be fire, because something has to balance the cold. Being very hard-working, you’ll find people who can give you the heat you’re so desperate for. Perhaps this effort is not necessary? Friends arrive without asking permission and just when we need it most.
Don’t give up. Cry, but don’t give up, life needs people to get up from the falls, learn to stand up and tell how they accomplished this feat, other people need people like you. That he can cry and, at the same time, understand his own tears.