When we separate from someone for reasons other than death, we will also have to grieve. Each form of separation brings pain and desire and also has its healing and healing time.
Have I survived my mother’s loss of friends, family?Cross more than painful? And now I’m going through a bitter mourning for my beloved kitten. It is a very hard, dark and lonely time, because what takes care of us. it’s just ours, no one else can see it, so there’s a lot of misunderstandings on some people’s part.
- Like every emotional storm.
- Pain leads us to reflect and rething our lives.
- Our way of life.
- The dimension of love that comes out and enters us.
- We compare.
- We try to understand.
- We remember.
- We cry.
- We rebel.
- We cry.
- We try to get back to normal.
- But we cry.
- I look around and I realize that everyone has their own pain.
- Which overflows with more or less intensity.
- So I learn that no one should judge or compare anyone’s pain.
- Pain must be understood and comforted.
- Never neglected.
My father always told me that there was a way to everything but death, and it is true, as long as there is life there will be other paths, when life is over, the only way will be pain, desire and inner elevation. Everything happens, painfully, little by little, but it happens. On the other hand, many times we will have to mourn someone who has left our lives, but is still there, beautiful, light and cowardly.
When we separate ourselves from someone for reasons other than death, we will also have a pain to face before us, we will look around us and the person will no longer occupy our spaces, but will always inhabit the world and turn away from us. Suffering in the same way, even more imagining where the other is, with whom, to do what, if they are happier than us, if we miss them, in short, separation without death also brings pain and desire. He also has his tiempo. de healing and healing.
Life, in the end, will force us to learn that we must follow, often without what we wanted, in a totally different way from what we had dreamed of, of having to survive with painful absences, while the soul tears apart. Even if no one replaces anyone, we can always find new loves, new friendships, new pets, so that our love does not drown in the chest and find another home to rest with the truth. That’s how love doesn’t make him die.