When we close a door we don’t do it out of pride, let alone cowardice, we do it because what you invest in relation to what you receive no longer makes sense, because there is no desire, the pieces, the desires, the moods no longer correspond, that’s when it’s time to cross the portal of fear to open other doors.
Although we are more than used to hearing this when “one door closes, another opens”, there are nuances to consider, these entries, these new worlds of opportunity, do not magically appear, it is necessary to search for them, give them and implement certain internal mechanisms for this to happen.
- “The door of happiness opens inward.
- Just take a small step to open it.
- Because if you push it.
- The door will close.
- -Seren Kierkegaard-.
Sometimes we all have the inevitable habit of agreeing on the same emotional channel: that of suffering, that of attachment to what was lost, that of remembering what has not been accomplished, that of the bitterness of so many disappointments experienced. And given all this abyss of complex emotions, what we usually do is leave a multitude of doors open with the poster?
However, we must stop to feel the breeze that these doors bring ajar, it is a cold wind smelling of stagnant times, dry tears, unfulfilled dreams, and where, from time to time, the echoes of those voices that once hurt us. Appear.
We have to close them for our own balance and mental health
Before we talk about these universes that open behind many doors that bear our own name, let’s first look at those that we have not yet closed What does it mean to finish a cycle, a step, leave a job or even end a relationship??
It means above all knowing how to resign, and resignation is something that no one has prepared us for, society itself and even the education we receive have always convinced us that we can have everything without giving up anything.
However, if we reflect for a moment on this delicate act of bravery, we will realize that the same act of maturing, growing and achieving a certain quality of life, goes through learning to close the doors, all those doors that have brought unpleasant winds.
Life itself forces us to make decisions all the time. Because to be happy, remember, you have to make decisions. Now, if we don’t dare close the door permanently so it hurts, that doesn’t go away and we run out, we will. give up our own happiness.
Because remember, happiness is priceless, it has rules, and one of them is to dare to be brave, to exist finally means to force you to move forward, to set foot in front of the other, while the heart opens itself to new opportunities with a dose of courage.
The little words when there was an opportunity and we were defeated by cowardice unite us to the past. Weighing lost opportunities and endless opportunities? So many times let’s look at yesterday that it dispels the present, and it’s not healthy or normal.
“When one door closes, another opens, however, we spend so much time looking at the closed door that we can’t see the one that’s opened for us. -Helen Keller-
No one can live in two places at the same time, or you move forward or you become the beautiful marker that remains forever in the most painful chapter. Without letting you discover how this story ends: your story. It is not good, you have to take the step, close the door, turn the page, become the person that you really are and that others have tried to model according to your desire.
Closing a door is not exactly the easiest thing, because one way or another, we not only leave behind what makes us unhappy, but sometimes we are also forced to give up certain things with which we identify, which were ours and have given us. Happy.
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Close the door and look around with renewed hope. You are another star in this universe in search of wonderful new opportunities.