The main consequence of hatred is violence, hatred is like an uncontrollable appetite that is never satisfied, is formed by anger, resentment and always finds a reason to re-burn, it is undoubtedly one of the most enslaving passions in the world. Humans.
There is usually a positive meaning in this popular saying: “who plantes, harvests”. In reality, however, this applies to both good and evil. In other words, if you sow love, you will reap love; but if you sow hatred, you’ll surely reap hatred and violence.
“More men come together to share the same hatred as love itself. “
When someone attacks another person, for whatever reason, a lot of anger and sadness is generated: a wound that is difficult to heal, this pain depends on the magnitude of the offense received and the wound the person has in his heart, depending on the experiences already lived.
The more painful the person’s experience, the more wounded we will find. Some people tend to remember bad times more than good times and are more committed to mistakes than success.
From hate aggression is just one step. A series of attacks creates hateful conditions. Hate settles in the heart and this unsettling feeling can be stronger than love. Aggressions multiply because there is always “an account to collect”.
Violence never leads to anything good; It is often born of cowardice and ignorance. It is a behavior that denigrizes and damages the human condition, even ethically and socially.
Violence generates more violence and its consequences are almost always the same: hatred, bitterness and a great desire for revenge. It becomes a vicious circle from which we cannot escape.
However, while there are rare occasions when violence can be understood as self-defense, we have serious doubts about its validity and acceptance; should always be the last resort, that is, when there is no other way out. when something very serious is in danger.
Violence is not just a physical or verbal aggression, there are deeply violent gestures that do not need a word, for example when someone denigrizes the other simply by looking or is complicit in an injustice, simply out of convenience, because reporting can cause trouble.
However subtle or disguised this type of violence is, it always has an effect, provokes a series of resentments in the other and forms a dramatic circle where two people are intimately bound by a feeling of discomfort.
Almost everyone who uses violence thinks they’re right. When we look at these hatreds that last for years or even centuries, we realize that everyone involved believes that their aggression is simply a fully justified act of defense.
They want to avoid aggression and attack first. They want to be respected and do everything they can to terrorize themselves, they want peace and do everything they can to silence those who think differently, then, if they receive an assault in return, they confirm the validity of their designs.
For example, why do we plan everything so well when we tell a lie that we almost always reach our goal, why do we encounter so many obstacles and rejections when we tell the truth?
Forgiveness frees you, is peace the condition?Sine qua no? For happiness. However, neither forgiveness nor the attainment of peace are automatic acts, they require careful reflection that begins with the recognition of our mistakes and mistakes.
The world needs strong and courageous beings who are not afraid to take a step back to avoid conflict, who are able to stay calm and wait for the other to calm down to initiate productive dialogue, to try to understand the other, rather than judge it. condemning him and even punishing him.
We may need bold, bold, determined people to end “bad habits. “People willing to plant good seeds in gardens of personal growth: an interesting way to resist the high level of violence, tension and aggression in which we live?and that prevents us from taking off our headband.