Why are there people who like one? Drama??
There are certainly many people around us who like to talk and criticize the lives of others.
- Boredom.
- Lack of goals and interests.
- As well as lack of pleasure.
- Make the lives of others more interesting than their own.
“Several times we allow them to add to our circle of gossipy, envious, authoritarian, psychopathic, proud, mediocre friendships, ultimately toxic people who constantly evaluate what we do and what we say, and also what we have not done or said?
? Bernardo Stamateas?
Maybe we’ve all had this kind of behavior before; the problem is when it becomes a “lifestyle” for many people.
In most cases, we do not choose to be surrounded by these people, because a dog chooses an owner who abuses them, it is just a lottery, a stroke of luck in this game of life.
They can be present in our lives from a young time, whether they are our colleagues or our boss at work, it can be one or all at once. Anyway, never blame yours for these “meetings. “
Statements like? As attracted as it is? They are very relative, people are as they are and, in some cases, we have no choice but to let them be part of our lives, but letting ourselves occupy a space in our lives is different from sharing life with us. Them.
The solution is a gradual exit. Cordiality, respect and emotional distance are your best weapons.
Convince yourself that elimination is the best solution. These people are contagious and don’t do us any good. Life is made up of decisions; we need to know each other well to decide who stays or not in our lives.
To be happy you have to make decisions objectively and without remorse, the priority is your emotional well-being and that of the people around you, so the best solution is to stay away from dramatic people.
? Repeat previous private conversations. This person, who ever heard our explosion, can start foul play when he realizes our discomfort for him. Remember, only you can let it affect you.
? Create a misunderstanding between you and the people around you. Don’t pay attention to what dramatic people say about the people around you.
? No matter what kinship you have: mother/daughter, spouse, partner; Don’t let them speak for you, every person has their individuality and their inner world.
There are people who go through our lives to give us an example of how we should not act, and detachment is the best option, this retreat will benefit your mental and physical health.
Dramatic people are like a shadow in your life, a shadow that, thanks to their intuition, could not turn off their light.