The poet Sara Bueno published a few days ago an article that said: when you stop blaming the stone, you will learn to walk, does this ring a bell?Maybe something that happened to you keeps hanging through your head like the first day, and you don’t know how to get out of the vicious circle you’re in, it’s like all the forces around him are returning it.
In cases where something is wrong, the terrible shadow of guilt appears, and this can happen in two different ways, on the one hand, with the guilt we feel in ourselves: we place on us the weight of consequences, on the other hand, transferring responsibility to the outside world: either to other people or to the problem itself.
- While we want to discuss this latter approach.
- It is worth remembering that none of the manifestations of guilt allow us to learn to walk and.
- More importantly.
- To move forward.
Life will never be as benevolent as we would like: things will always happen that we find unfair, that we believe we do not deserve and that we do not expect, so it is natural to understand that feelings of guilt often appear.
In fact, it is understood that when a stone appears in our path, we usually curse the stone that prevents us from continuing or the stone that placed it there, let’s say it is simpler?Don’t talk easily? The attitude of blaming more than looking for more to find a solution.
We waste time authoring the stone or its surface instead of looking for the method that teaches us how to push it away, that is, finding culprits will not help you, it will not erase the damage already done and will only squeeze. the headband even more.
Even if you think there’s a real culprit, I still wouldn’t teach you the way to go so you don’t stagnate where you are. The most effective way to learn is not in stone, but in the way he got there.
Try to focus on what’s going on, be brave to get to the root of what hurts you and you’ll know how to leave it behind, you’re stronger than this stone and your life has the power to be much more intense than any obstacle. looking to limit it.
There’s something behind you that you can’t reach right now because you have a lot of monsters around you that chase you and push you back. Behind the act of blaming there is a truth you dare not acknowledge, but you have no choice if I want to continue.
Let it rain, open your eyes, release your emotional debts: as long as you breathe, there’s still time. This is one more stone, another experience, part of the learning.
Walking involves falls, some with their own name and sometimes without: sometimes we fall because we had to learn something and maybe that was the only way to learn, besides not all sides of the obstacles are negative: there is also another side that makes us Good teachers.
The key is to collect what the stone wants to tell us and avoid the burden of prolonging it, mainly because the wear and tear of forces is useless, they say that everything that someone resists persists and that you do not want to persist. in continuous discomfort.
In short, our shoes have lived a long time and in their soles is the trace of what we have already walked, but the heart has no place for everything: we need a filter that allows us to transmit what it brings, but removes what it only takes. space, uses energy and hurts.