What sets successful people apart is knowing they’re ready to achieve their goals.
When we set out to do a task, if we feel that we can accomplish it, that we are guaranteed past success, we launch ourselves with a characteristic enthusiasm of those who know that they can achieve their goals. Effect.
- It is this sense of power that allows us to break down all the obstacles that stand in our way and.
- Contrary to the fear that paralyzes us.
- The feeling of strength that success produces guarantees its development.
I’m not saying it’s easy, don’t we have to push easy things, I mean, although it’s difficult and really complicated, we have a security in ourselves that doesn’t allow us to deviate from the path to the goal.
The desire to win appears very early; first at stake, then it extends to almost everything that happens in life. We want to be winners, but why do we want to win so much? Well, because it makes us happy.
It is like a drug: it generates an increase in dopamine in our body, a substance that gives us great well-being, activating, in turn, the reward and desire circuits, making each experience more satisfying.
Does the will to compete lead us to evolve, to want to be more, to learn more, to obtain better results, to go further?It was and will be the mechanism that makes individual subjects and therefore species grow.
But we must be able to combine this impulse with that of collaboration, because if we act according to our needs, leaving aside the collective to which we belong, this will to succeed, success, can become negative: we can become obsessed with desire. win just to win, which reduces empathy and increases self-centeredness. To grow in harmony and with greater possibilities, we need others, their different ways of facing and seeing the life that complement us and make us better.
Let’s learn to grow based on our successes. The great, the important, but without forgetting the small, the insignificant, because if we learn to value the smallest and to consider it as a success, the great will come accordingly.