We were all wounded at some point in our lives and at some point we also hurt someone, in this sense it is likely that the damage caused is unconscious or, unfortunately, quite the opposite.
On the other hand, everyone gives their stories the importance they think they have, because suffering is a very relative thing, some people suffer a lot from a situation that for us would be a setback, and vice versa. He understands that every circumstance is worthy of respect.
- In any case.
- It is necessary to “let go” of suffering in order to live in inner harmony.
- In fact.
- It is difficult to face the moment when the only remedy is to accept what happened.
- But we can do it.
- And if we do.
- We will achieve our goals.
It is often said that pain is bad and it makes a lot of sense that we would like to avoid suffering. We don’t want any negative facts to break our emotional balance and make us feel like a deadlock. To some extent, we have enough tools to overcome a pain, but we are never prepared when it arrives.
We all know that suffering is a possibility, but we cannot easily adapt to the blows that life gives us, yet here we have talked several times about the positive side of suffering: teaching, learning.
Have you noticed? Some people think that life is full of difficulties to avoid, or as a large playground, where each corner offers a new experience. -Laurent Gounelle-
The teaching of the experiences we live is like a small seed, from which we reap precious fruits along the way, from this point of view it is good to let ourselves suffer, learn from suffering and absorb as much as possible. possible details of life.
You have to make mistakes to learn to value and appreciate success, it is good to cry to see the situation from another angle and calm our heart, it is certainly good to understand that on a trip there are ups and downs and, if you fall during these descents there is no problem, the important thing is to learn to get up.
When you are there, at the bottom of a deep well, you feel that the tools to get out of this place are out of our reach, when we cannot overcome the past, the shadow of this feeling keeps us at the bottom of the well. .
That is, we live in a time when this suffering no longer exists, but sometimes we scratch the memory of the past, if this happens it is because we cannot leave the past behind, live the moment and go your way. Remember, the past can’t hurt us again if we don’t allow it.
“But who can remember the pain once she’s gone?All that’s left is just a shadow, doesn’t it affect the mind or body?. – Margaret Atwood-
We will not be sure to overcome suffering until we look back and realize that memories no longer cause us pain or control us. We do not deserve to suffer forever; forgive the other or forgive yourself, depending on the situation.
Suffering temporarily deprives us of control of our lives, but with patience and courage we have managed to regain it. The controller is yours: you’re in charge to go wherever you want to go from now on.
Take your suitcase full of useful sensations and leave behind what no longer works. We got lost halfway, but now we’re back on the track and we’re not going to get lost. And if fate changes course by chance, we can see each one. another again.
? (?) Decide when they have lost control of their lives Why is there always a time when life is derailed?. – Gillian Flynn-