Letting go, knowing how to take steps, getting away from certain people and situations takes a lot of courage, but it also takes a lot of courage to care for, love, repair and keep those we love by our side.
It’s not an easy task, it’s true. For the art of the heart does not allow improvisations; we need thoughtful actions so that we can always do our best.
- There is an old saying that people stumble more with their tongues than with their feet.
- It is a great truth.
- After all.
- That is precisely why we end up losing those we love.
- Through unfortunate language and never-said words.
- Those that have been suffocated by unforgivable pride or carelessness.
The art of relationship management is happiness, but no one is an expert at it and we often make sad mistakes that we regret all our lives. Couples, friends, family?
To love is to be attentive and to take care of is to know how to be present in attitudes, intentions, emotions and behaviors, all of which certainly requires a lot of emotional intelligence and empathy.
Esopo said in one of his fables that everyone was brave at a safe distance, it is true, in a way, that this dimension is most missed in the midst of relationships, in a friendship that has no barriers and help in the most necessary moments. . In love capable of overcoming fears and insecurities to give onese to each other fully and courageously.
Now, if anything is true, we don’t need heroes, in terms of affection we don’t want or need anyone to save us, but do we expect them to dare, combine determination and courage to show, heal, love, reparation?We want to have at our side people who understand that affection must weave a daily refuge where we feel loved and appreciated.
Courage has many forms. It is he who finally overcomes his fears and manages to leave his comfort zone to show his worth, to find his place in the world. It is also in this person that he leaves aside a situation that has destroyed his well-being to recover it. control of your life and identity.
We also met brave people in various professions, in which they risk their own lives to save the lives of others, for example, but although bravery is expressed infinitely, it has only one nature: what is achieved out of love and appreciation and not for the pure selfishness of those seeking fame, recognition or any other kind of external reinforcement.
Therefore, those who do not see barriers to help others are brave, courageous is someone who acts according to their values and dares to transform their reality to achieve well-being, why, let us be clear, self-love also means loving, caring, repairing?
Taking care of the relationship we have with us, taking care of this inner bond with our own being, is the only way to always be able to give our best to our loved ones.
There is a powerful tool to impact others, an important exercise that we must always keep in mind: our presence.
Few things leave as many marks as making the person in front of us see that we are with them. This moment when we are together and nothing matters more than this precious moment.
What happens in this shared gift is precious to us, and that is why we abandon ourselves, that is why we strive to feel with all the senses, to be in front of each other in presence, emotion, speech and will is the most decisive factor in the human being. Relations. We must make sense of this moment through gaze, attention and, above all, communication.
When we appreciate what we have, the world is calm, we no longer aspire to anything and we lack nothing because all our voids are full, full of well-being, gratitude and affection.
Everything is in order when we realize that our life is complete and that happiness is one of the most mundane acts, but at the same time incredibly transcendent.
Love, heal, repair? It is satisfaction in the world of relationships and is a form of courage practiced by those who are satisfied with their emotional bonds.
Caring for those we love, taking care of every moment, every word we say, every decision and also daring to make mistakes, is the path that will lead us to happiness.