When we are very young, the rush always pushes us to take thoughtless measures, time seems to be our enemy and we want everything for yesterday, the fear of not being able to do everything we want makes us hostages of impulsivity and then we can not manage our actions. Conflicting feelings.
The head and mind are constantly fighting. And sometimes it seems like nothing has a solution. Lost.
And then you realize you have to act: mature or give up
When life took me to the point of decision, I decided and I have matured! To be honest with you readers, I am growing up, spending your life as a victim, even without realizing it, is cruel to you and those who love you, acting like scared teenagers who always run on their knees looking for support is exhausting and sad For you and for those who love you. Nobody likes to be next to those who are always sad and lament.
When I found out about this, I began to attract things that I had never imagined. Wonderful people. Love. Simple exercises helped me get through these stages, the first was acceptance. I can’t change the world or people, but I can change myself. And I accepted it. It wasn’t easy, but it was liberating.
I have a very strong personality and accepting that not everything can be my way was a big step forward, but discovering this made me see how life can be lighter, so I began to listen rather than talk. Well, when I spoke, haven’t you given the other the slightest chance to open up, to express yourself, to learn new things, to learn?It also means respect. And respect attracts respect. When we listen to people, they feel loved and respected. And it’s rewarding.
And speaking of gratitude, here’s another tip, the most important of all: be grateful!For everything! Note this: if one day you have nothing to eat, when you have food, you will be extremely grateful and enjoy this meal, will you?
When you have bad relationships and find out why they didn’t work, when you find someone to spend your life with, you value them and you’ll probably pay more attention, so thank those who went wrong.
When a person irritates you, look at the reason and think: why does it irritate me so much?It is difficult to understand, but you will find that there are many of you in this person and that he gives you the opportunity to improve. Be grateful! Be grateful to your parents, family, friends. Thank you for your work or the one that awaits you.
And like everything happens when we’re ready, if that hasn’t happened yet, it’s because we’re not ready yet.
If you follow these steps, you will realize that time is your friend, you will no longer be afraid to be 30, 40, 50 years old or older. You will breathe easy when you discover that you can be happy and at any time, anywhere, simply because happiness lives in you, comes from so much gratitude for life, for nature, for people, that nothing and no one can sadden you. Except for you.
Meditate, do therapy, believe in the God who dwells in you. Thank you for everything when you wake up, get up, eat, smile. Read more. Give yourself the opportunity to meet new people and discover how special you are. Kiss your parents. Value your family, your children. Know that there is no age to start over, to learn, to be happy.
Be affectionate and do good. The world will smile at you.