First of all, let’s remember this famous common sense that tells us to realize that many times who lose wins, we usually see everything in the heat of the moment, taking the immediacy of what happens to us as the only possible way for things to come out. However, this is not true, because time finally shows us that many things were the opposite of what we imagined.
How many of us are not trapped in a sweltering and exhausting relationship with someone who seems to be a great friend, a perfect couple, as if we couldn’t find anything better, as if living without that person is unimaginable to us?after a while without this presence, we realized that our lives had improved, that we were wasting our time at all.
- Everything has a purpose.
- What happens to us.
- What they do to us.
- How much we suffer.
- Smile.
- How much we fight.
- Everything is part of our learning.
- So that we are better people and safer than we want.
- Or not want for us.
- The good tells us the certainty of what and to whom we will have to keep together.
- The bad.
- On the other hand.
- Serves as a lesson?albeit painful?of everything and everything we must avoid.
- That we will have to keep away.
- Far away.
That is why it is often, though inevitable, to suffer for those who no longer love us, for those who have used us and abused us as best we can, those who have had us and have dispensed us as disused objects, will inevitably become something that we will eventually regret, the passage of time will calm us down and make it clear that this person was far from the one who deserved us , who would add us up, who would be vital to us. us what we cannot accept as love.
We will not be able to emerge unscathed from the relationship that we will face, because when we are there inside everything, very closely, it is difficult to see firmly all the voids and wounds in which we are inserted. However, as the days go by, we will be able to free ourselves from those who are no longer together, giving them their rightful importance: none. Thus we survive, how we strengthen ourselves and prepare for the awesome encounter with the true love of our lives.