You have spent many times, some very good and sometimes less, you will continue to live new experiences that will mark you and that you will remember when you look back, however, what do you care when you return to your past?The protagonists will not be personal successes, sad days and solitary failures. It won’t be what you have, it’s who you shared it with.
Many of these positive or negative situations, which you now remember as if they were historical, have main protagonists, people who have marked you, who have inspired you, who have hurt you.
- Is it curious enough to be aware of the time we spend on our successes.
- Goals.
- Goals.
- And personal growth?On the other hand.
- When we look back.
- Many of these aspirations and efforts do not deserve to be remembered.
Connecting with others is very important to us, because they mark us from birth, think of our parents, how they become fundamental pillars and help us take our first steps, both literally and metaphorically. Thanks to them we have learned a lot about the art of living.
However, do our parents soon start “falling behind”?With the arrival of friends and boyfriends. This new world in which we are dealing with people who are not part of our family, but who we sometimes regard as such. We will be disappointed, others will trust and eventually suffer, with many of us we will discover the meaning of the word “happiness”. All this will allow us to learn more about the links.
Every day is a challenge to achieve a better relationship with our boss, to solve this discussion we had with our brother, or to improve many other experiences that concern us in relation to our relationship with others, it is as if everything is reduced to this, as if our main goal is to improve relations with others.
You may be wondering: what about those who disappoint me?I don’t want to try to fix things, I want to get rid of them. With just this reality on the table, do you realize how central you are to the people in your life?Good and evil are marked by themes that give them value.
Maybe it’s because we’re social beings, do we need to communicate with others, to notice that we’re part of a group?This makes connecting with someone critical to making us feel good. When that doesn’t happen, we’re sad, because negative feelings and emotions come out. When you get to this point, it goes without saying that when you look at what you’ve been through, the first thing that comes to mind is not what happened, but who you were with.
If people are so important to us, it is normal that when we share our accomplishments and goals, our own joy, we cannot be happy, this would explain why many successful people or any other goal that made them succeed are not considered complete people. .
Think of someone who came very high in life, this person had to compete with others who lived up to the task, but with effort, passion and hard work he got what he wanted so badly, but what did she think when he caught up with her?Objective? How proud he was, but also the fact that he could share this great success with those he loved most. If reality is so obvious, isn’t it time to act accordingly?
Start taking advantage of the people around you. Sometimes we forget about them. We stopped being with our family because we have to work. We postpone dating our friends for projects or other stories that we prioritize over them. As Christmas approaches, for example, how many people do you think you miss going out with their loved ones?
It is true that sometimes this is not possible, but remember that moments are unique, if you do not take advantage of it when you have the opportunity, they will pass and will not happen again, it is normal to have a vision of the future, but if people are such an important part of your memories, do not let them go. They deserve your time, too.
Now, every time you look back, focus on all those people who have marked every moment of your life, why here, almost?There’s no time. Absolutely all those special moments, those most hated situations, the day you were happy, the night you wanted to die. The protagonists of all are the people who were part of their lives.
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