“With the blows of life, I made my hut. “
Popular saying
- Some people.
- Far from isolating themselves and becoming antisocial beings.
- Have benefited from the lessons of negative situations.
Some of the situations we find ourselves in throughout our lives end in disappointment, however, people who bet on happiness usually manage to overcome the stones of the road and improve vital situations for a bright future.
Now let’s look at some of the most complex situations we’ve experienced, learned and become stronger with.
Not everyone has a stable home, a refuge for everyone
The truth is that many people become the adults they saw in their homes as children, in homes characterized by their negative and toxic character; others, however, had their conscience firmly focused on the fact that, if they were a family, they did not want the same environment to happen again in their homes.
If you’re one of the people who hasn’t lived in a good environment, learn a lesson for your future home.
Few people can say that they immediately found a lifelong love that had the result they expected. Most people go through a lot of romances and disappointments, and many have suffered a lot of emotional blows.
If these people suspect due to past disappointments, they refuse to find a partner that suits them.
So avoid this and don’t choose victimization after a deamoration. Turning your back on love and giving up your risks also means voluntarily giving up the positive things it can bring us.
Who hasn’t had a toxic friend and robbed us of moments of calm and joy?When we realize this, we feel pain; It’s a?Lifestyle?in us.
This is because most people understand that friendship is sharing, not suffering, and that should always be the case.
So learn from your disappointments, but don’t give up the peace and intimacy of friendship with someone. Social relationships are important to our stability.
Friends are the family we chose
Academic disappointments refer to our self-efficacy and are therefore linked to self-esteem, for example, maybe you thought you could do it, but you didn’t get the results you wanted and it made you feel like a loser.
To remedy this and make sure your self-esteem doesn’t deteriorate, it’s time to examine yourself. Couldn’t you focus on yourself?Too many activities at the same time? I’m sure you’ll jump to conclusions with your analysis, and with them you’ll be able to organize and improve this result.
Unfortunately, health is only valued when we lose it, when we are weak we wonder how we complain so much about the time when we were healthy, health problems make us see what is really important, make us live life with more awareness and gratitude.
Learn from the disease, no matter how serious it is or has been. Your lessons are valuable.
The economy is not going well, but some people have suffered more than others. Some have not been “hanged,” but they have seen their savings disappear.
It’s difficult because it’s conditioned by other aspects of life. You may have been through this situation recently, but over time you will greatly appreciate the material aspect and be more careful in your financial planning.
Not knowing who I am?Where do I go? these are thoughts and feelings that humans often experience. Don’t worry; Today’s torment will surely teach you to appreciate the calm. He has become more cultured, more adventurous and has gained more courage with all these questions he has tried to answer.
If you’re disappointed, look forward. Fill yourself with strength, not anger, so you’ll gather the materials to build your emotional hut, with the blows of life will build a haven of safe and solid peace.