Sedúce me with words, with letters whispered in your ear as you hug me, speak as you look at me to see the depths of my being, write to me when you remember me and let me know that I am present in your life through your words You just need to know a secret: the best aphrodisiac for women are words.
It is not for words, it does not serve for hugs or kisses, I need to feel your sincerity, that your gestures accompany your words, that you have a real interest in me, because otherwise your words will be empty and the magic will not happen.
“The most seductive thing about a woman is her eyes when I see her and her intelligence when I see her.
-Antonio Gomez Rufo-
Communication is always fundamental, but when two people meet it is even more important, women, in general, pay attention to everything, the way they look at us, the way they talk to us, what they tell us, in gestures, in how they express themselves or dress. That’s not to say that we’re drawing quick conclusions, but we’re just interested in knowing who’s before us.
One of the most important aspects that most seduces us are the words that, well used, with attention and respect, can be a powerful aphrodisiac. How do we use words to seduce ourselves?
The words that come out of the heart, which are sincere, that are not a prepared discourse, can drive us away, it is not about thinking about beautiful phrases and then saying them out loud, but feeling what inspires you in this wonderful woman to have before you and expressing you with the utmost naturalness and respect.
Singing or over praising is not legal and can even be uncomfortable. It is important to find the balance between what is too much and what is perfect, but it is simply a matter of being attentive, of looking at each other’s reactions; your eyes will speak.
Women like to talk, but they also like to be looked at, to listen to them when they speak, they like to be interested in what they say, a word accompanied by a look suggests many things, but this look must also be sincere and natural. because we like the man to be himself.
As confidence grows, a caress accompanied by words is a perfect mix, but always with delicacy, with respect, with feeling, never with too much confidence, pride or contempt.
Some words said with humor, irony, touch, can be very seductive, not all of us have the same sense of humor, so you have to be careful when you don’t know the person in front of you and always play with it. respect and intelligence.
We all like to laugh and there are always people who are especially funny, but it is difficult for both senses of humor to fit together, you have to take time to get to know each other, to adapt to what the other person likes and does not like.
“Love comes when you are not called. It settles into confusion and fades like fog when we try to contain it.
Isabel Allende
Excess words don’t work, it doesn’t seduce, it gets a little monotonous. Talking too much and not letting the other person talk can be uncomfortable for that person who can’t express what they think and feel. A conversation between two people must give way to the words of the two, the silences of the two, and the glances that intersect and meet.
If the words are not sincere, if they are not accompanied by attitudes, they will be empty, there will be no coherence between what is said and what is done, and all those words that have been said for no reason, without feeling, will fly, diluted, will be left in nothing.
Women are particularly sensitive, and this lack of coherence between words and feelings can hurt, leading to the belief that what prayers say is not true.
“For women, the best aphrodisiac is words; point G is in the ears, the one who looks lower will waste time. “
Isabel Allende