We know that there are many people who are emotionally unhappy and/or disillusioned, who simply do not want to enter into new relationships for the past who fear repeating the the other, for an old story that did not work. passion makes us vulnerable and we are certainly more fragile in the face of disappointments, failures and disappointments when we love, but then is it better to stop feeling so as not to suffer?
Of course not. Feeling makes us live life more intensely, and love is worth it at any age, but that is, with balance and maturity, always taking care of our self-esteem, but how do we do it?Is there a magic formula that allows us to find the perfect person that suits us best?, the person who makes our lives simple and intense at the same time, and with whom we can build something together?
- There is no magic formula in love.
- No advice that can help everyone in the same way.
- Each of us has our own experience and we draw our own conclusions about what suits us or not.
However, we cannot ignore what subject matter experts say, anthropologists and biologists like the famous Helen Fisher say that personality is very important when it comes to finding the right match.
This same author is the one who announces an interesting theory based on 4 dimensions of personality, on which he would build the support of the best compatibility.
Do you want to know which one you can identify with?
The first suitable combination of partners is formed by two profiles with the same characteristics, traits that Helen Fisher calls explorers. But what is really an explorer? We are confident that you will be able to recognize these people immediately.
As you can see, the only way for someone to be happy with this type of personality is precisely with someone who has their own interests, if, for example, you seek stability and commitment, it is better that you do not start a relationship with someone who has this type of profile, they can end up suffering a lot.
Again, we see the combination of partners with similar personalities What is a person of character like?
If, for example, we don’t know whether or not we want to have children, is it likely that we don’t fit in?very well in this profile. It won’t be easy to live with them either if you don’t like routine, that security where spontaneity is not well accepted.
In this case, we already see the union of two different characteristics, two personalities that, although different at first glance, seem to fit very well.
As you can see, the combination of these personalities seems to fit like a curious puzzle between them, completing: objectivity with intuition, reasoning with sensitivity. Ordinary personalities and, according to Helen Fisher, tend to form stable and happy couples.
You may not identify with any of these profiles, or on the contrary, you may believe that this theory makes perfect sense, in any case it can be useful to make us think, to show that each other’s personality is always important for a healthy relationship. But to be the best of the “teams”, it is important never to lose sight of the pillars of understanding, respect, communication and a common project.
Do you agree?