The heart of a mature woman is a deep sea of secrets that keeps in her most intimate room the palpitations of wanting, loving with conscience and feeling with emotion, intuition and defiance.
When we say heart, we mean something intangible that balances experiences and exposes in itself the door of a huge place, which opens the memory of wonderful scenarios full of sensations.
- The heart.
- Understood as mind.
- Has cycles and seasons that travel paths around a search and succession of periods of solitude.
- Rest.
- Belonging and even disappearance.
The relationship of a mature woman with herself and those around her is based on a series of emotional needs that can be summed up in one sentence: the mature woman seeks to return to herself.
That is, the woman, at maturity, wants to find an emotional point that invites her to praise her secrets, her moments and her scars, this is usually the moment when we feel ready to value and consider our mistakes as well. as for valuing what we deserve.
The mature woman seeks and recreates in herself a more conducive environment to be herself, to define a healthier center of care and to recover the serenity in the burning blood of those who have been shipwrecked by her weaknesses and survived thanks to her strengths.
“When a woman makes the decision to renounce suffering, lying and submission. When a woman says from the bottom of her heart. “Stop it, I’m here so far. ” Not a thousand armies of ego and all the traps of hope can stop you in the search for your own truth.
There the doors of your own soul open and the healing process begins, the process that will gradually bring you back to yourself, to your real life. And no one said this road would be easy, but it’s “the way. “the decision itself opens a direct line with its wild nature, and this is where the true miracle begins.
-Clarissa Pinkola-Estés-
The mature woman gradually undergoes a journey back to the house of the soul that invites her to become aware of what happened in her previous life, so she needs to resolve the conflicts created in the cycles before maturity.
Thus, the heart of the mature woman loves more and feels worthy of respect, full of those values that caress with age and articulate the ability to love and transcend in understanding the feelings of others.
The search process can be painful, because being so close requires walking many miles away from yourself, stepping back, getting injured, and getting away from what you wanted.
Emotional maturity may come sooner or later, but it is certainly preceded by years and years of distractions, emotional accidents and the annulment of a very important part of ourselves.
Knowing where we are and where our world is is is no easy task and requires the loss of the skin, the identity theft that has involved us and with which we struggle in hundreds of areas.
The mature woman needs to get rid of this skin to stop rejecting the experiences and feel them directly, making them her own without a protective shield, that is, she must let go, let go, say goodbye and not hold on more to what she has prevented. her from being herself, to those social expectations that consume her.
Then crises cease to appear in our country unexpectedly and emotional liberation begins to frequent our addictions, giving way to determination and self-love.
That is, giving space to the first person, to priorities, to the hydration of one’s identity, to the wisdom of mature women. Then begins the recreation of the woman, who gives life to your secret life through your instincts, your experience and the strength of your feminine psychology.