Our world is a mental territory where our fears, our desires, our nostalgia and all the things we talk about coexist; on the other hand, the people we attract somehow reflect the beliefs we have about ourselves and others.
We often let in our lives people we never thought would make sense, people other than us whose mission is to help us understand, heal, and forgive ourselves and others.
- Sometimes we attract people who press buttons that we didn’t know existed.
- People with characteristics that we can’t accept within ourselves.
- Attitudes that we can’t see in ourselves.
- But that we can see in others.
- Attract these people to help us win our own inner battle.
To complain about what we have in life is to despise ourselves
Many people constantly complain about their love story, but it’s interesting to note that they always attract people who don’t value them, leave them out, or don’t include them as their priorities.
So if you tend to attract people who lie and cheat, ask yourself if you don’t value yourself and have a deteriorated self-esteem that projects you as a small, vulnerable person, so your lack of self-esteem would be what makes you a right victim for them and what attracts them.
On the other hand, allowing uncompensated relationships for no reason is an undeniable sign that something is wrong with us, if we give in to these relationships we put ourselves in their circle of influence and risk eventually lying, deceiving and characterizing ourselves in a way that has nothing to do with our own essence, let alone the way we want to be :
Self-awareness is critical to attracting the right people into our lives.
Why do we only attract the wrong people? It all comes down to the fact that we are a reflection of what we attract, the level of value we see in ourselves is the same as the people we attract often have, because we accept the love we think we deserve. fear of change will push us to find someone we feel comfortable with, so we’ll always look for the same pattern.
“We live in the past and he’s dead. If we live in the present as we have experienced so far, the future will be like the past. Work on yourself, change something about yourself in the present, so that the future is different. “?-GIGurdjieff-
The less we have evolved, the more we will attract complicated and painful situations. When we attract people or situations of conflict, we actually attract change and personal evolution. The greatest lessons come from the crisis phases, as Seneca rightly said, adversity is an opportunity for virtue.
True maturity means accepting that everything that happens to us is perfect because it is in its process towards perfection, to understand that the problems we have, in large part, are an opportunity to grow will help us to improve, on the contrary, to see them as a failure is only a way to quell our own aspirations.
Think about it, uncensored, without giving up, without rejection, would you be the same person you are today?At least in my case, without all the negative things I had to overcome, these days I couldn’t enjoy life like I do.
Everything that happens is perfect because it’s on its way to perfection.
I was a very lucky person. But nothing was easy.