The curious world of love, pleasure, well-being and happiness What mysteries do you hide?What are your dangers? One of the greatest risks will be allowing us to love another person without loving us first.
A harmonious, conscious and self-sufficient relationship is one of the fundamental pillars of our relationship with others, not only in a loving relationship, but also with all those around us in our daily lives.
- If we have internal doubts or conflicts and project them on others.
- We may not be able to see them.
- Which may lead us to believe that what fails are romantic relationships.
- When in reality the failure is in the relationship within us.
What can I offer others if I don’t even know what’s in me?How am I going to let others make me happy if I don’t even know what I want?The first and most important thing is to create a good relationship. with himself, based on sincerity and fullness, and then integrate it into the relationships he establishes with others.
The idea is to incorporate this positive energy into our relationships with others, socializing and making friendships or emotional bonds I can get to know parts of myself that I did not know, social relationships show me a part of me in which I reflect others in the form of a mirror, and show me new behaviors or emotions that I myself conceive.
Knowing how to be alone opens the doors of intimacy. Knowing yourself and knowing one’s own tastes, desires, flaws and flaws makes us more real and stronger.
The purpose of this journey will be to learn to love, from the depths and knowledge, without blindfolding, loving, respecting, taking the time and making yourself felt are the basic pillars of a good relationship with all areas of my life. Mind.
If we learn to be alone, we can make the decision to establish a loving relationship, because we will contribute to it and make us grow; it will never be a necessity, because love will already be in all.
A good step in learning to be alone will be to make the difference between being alone or feeling lonely. The feeling of being alone can have a negative and undesirable connotation when you want to learn to “be alone”.
Feeling alone is isolation, estviation of the social world, loneliness. Being alone is everyone’s decision and involves a constant search carried out with pleasure and enthusiasm in each, but it does not have in itself a feeling of isolation or pain.
I feel good about myself and choose you on one path, a path with two complete people who love each other, but not halves that need to be completed by the other Love for others will always be a decision, not the answer to a need.
It can be a risk to believe that something is missing and want to look for it, when in reality what we lack is to get along and understand us, know what you want and know you well to know how to achieve it. . Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that the problem is on the outside, first let’s look inside everyone, solve it and then yes, let’s look out.
I don’t want others to complement me, I want to be accepted, just as I will have to accept the other as a complete being, I live a complete story, with the most important person accompanying me, myself.
The others won’t come to give me what I miss, but they add up. Through them, I can also take the opportunity to know myself, because everyone’s love and story don’t stop, but we keep writing chapters in time.