You think it’s a simple decision, don’t you, be happy!Because you think it’s very good, that simple, it’s hard to face the consequences and keep your feet in the certainties that made you breathe, raise your head and say, “Enough, I want you to be happy!”
Most people seek their own happiness and, in the middle, give you advice on how to seek your own. In the end, everyone defends theirs, because life is like this, all to survive. And it takes a lot of selfishness, to survive, I have to tell you, that is precisely why, when they think about their modus operandi of happiness, people will think, in the end, of what would make them happier, for you to act according to that goal.
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- I really want to tell you that deciding to be happy is simple.
- You just reach out your left hand and put your right hand on your heart in an oath: “Happiness or death!?Bear the consequences! Discover.
- So that you are happy.
- Many things will die.
- They will be lost.
- They will leave.
- And sometimes your heart will also break.
The first sad observation I made in choosing to be happy is that people are disappointed with our personal choices. I find it hard to understand how the same mouth that says “I love you, I love your good” can disrespect your right to choose how. Will you look for this? Because I like yellow and you might like purple, so what?I hate jil, you might like it (someone must love it). Do I have my way of making my way?Enter the dictionary and look for my definition, please!
So, and in short, I realized that everyone is looking for happiness, it’s looking at the navel and following the path!Except that in addition to the navel itself, people insist on dictating the rules that will guide our happiness, they are the people we hold in high esteem and who commit to ruin everything when they show that they don’t care about you. they want things to follow their molds.
So I saw that since I was no longer in a mold, in the mold of other people’s lives, I no longer integrated myself and from where I did not go out of my own free will, I was expelled a ceremony (or I continue to insist on a stubborn stay) and condemned to the end), I saw the bonds of a lifetime die, I saw eyes of judgment and condemnation, I saw old convictions lost in time , I saw the departure of people who loved so much and who, when they saw me I decided my happiness, left and broke my heart.
I cried, I’ve suffered. Part of me died too. “Be careful not to seek happiness and never find it,” I heard. What if I was wrong, without realizing that happiness was there and constantly looking for more and more without finding it?
Then I realized that what I was doing was simply parking at a point where perhaps my happiness was and insisting on extracting it, afraid of going in search of happiness without ever finding it and letting the opportunity go unnoticed. .
The day I decided to be happy was when I found old models, I ran the curtain of a boring spectacle (for me) and to my astonishment, revealed an incredible horizon with countless paths I could go on. from these ways there was a sign that said, Follow your heart.
It was then that I closed my eyes, opened my arms, stoed my left hand and placed my right over my heart and whispered, resounding in me, “Happiness or death!?Did I feel happy? Death of many things, ties and feelings. I cried the departure, as I still do today, of many people in my life. And I decided, by myself, that those people who left so easily never were.
Do you know what it is? For many people, coexistence means comfort
The day I decided to be happy I realized (happy) that I am a person who lives with the heart, and this group of people, I have to tell you, life strikes without mercy, then I realized that being happy is like learning to ride a bike every day. We try to balance one stable and another and we get up, grated and satisfied, to maintain our balance and experience the freedom to be happy.
And if coexistence is about convenience, I choose to live with people who conveniently make me happy.