A popular saying says “being grateful is a sign of a good education. “However, we must agree that while we are grateful for what we receive, we should never expect a reward for our good deeds.
Being taken off, generous and always present, leaves a mark on ourselves and the people around us, that is, simply doing something to help others generates emotional compensation and makes us feel good on many levels.
- When we contact someone.
- We create fingerprints in many ways; footprints that will eventually become attractions.
- Brands that will make us unforgettable people.
- There is nothing like a gift to transmit light and awaken the best version of ourselves.
So, one way or another, when we offer something to others, we know each other better, helping us control our self-esteem and desire to improve. What we receive and what we mark a before and after in our lives and in the lives of others.
In general, people who benefit from the gift of solidarity, generosity and kindness do not know what their actions mean to others, that is, their attitude is so natural that they do not think about the impact it causes.
In this sense, good people do not expect their actions to turn into gains for their own well-being, because what they do for others leaves them satisfied.
However, the danger of surrendering to others is to offer too much and lose the right to individuality, often the other can turn against us, causing us to lose the strength that characterizes abandonment, hindered by selfishness that prevails in the demands of others.
If a heart is good, no ingratitude closes it, no indifference tires it out.
? Tolstoy?
Good people can also hurt us and do not lose light, so the important thing is to know how to thank every moment and every gesture, without condemning and denigrating anyone.
We cannot fail to recognize the efforts of some people to do good and make life easier for others, we cannot judge someone who has made a mistake, because this will weaken the world and the network of goodness that surrounds it.
Not all of us are entirely good or all bad, we are not always what we seem, and whether we like it or not, we all have lights and shadows, what makes us good or bad are the paths we choose, because they describe us and make us who we really are.
They say that people degrade when there is no humility, it is not the great choices, it is the small grains of sand that make the world a better place, good people are valued for the loyalty of their hearts and the greatness of their soul.
In the end, remembering Cicero’s words, we must remember that gratitude is not only the greatest virtue, it is the mother of all, it is because it is a virtue that comes from the heart, that allows us to respect, value and recognize what others do for us.
Life can be confusing, but we must not forget the importance of gratitude, accept that the world is not only in black and white, but that there is an infinite range of colors, always do your best and, of course, remember that the best reward is in you.