Permeability is an innate characteristic of all of us, we were born as a blank piece of paper in the hands of a writer, predisposed to fill himself with interesting words.
As they write on our paper and we feel that this ink permeates us, many times we choose an immutable attitude that does not allow us to erase or add anything to our writing, which has nothing to do with what is already there.
- We forget that society evolves.
- Changes and becomes interesting in each of our experiences.
- It is obvious that life has a summative character; Everything we live is part of our ‘baggage’.
- But using it to prevent us from growing.
- Learning and listening is a mistake.
Emotions are ethereal, they have the ability to get in and out of us, no matter what waterproof we put on so as not to disturb our “calm”. Thus, we try not to suffer or not let others influence us, as if What we are was not exactly the result of many others who went through our lives when there was still room to write on our paper. Now we are insensitive to new ideas.
My imagination often allows me to observe how some people engage in conversations as well as with them?Covering your ideas, no matter what they say or how they say it?No one will be convinced of anything because they start from a rigid and immutable attitude. , many times they don’t even listen to themselves, they talk and think about what they should keep saying.
Are they afraid to move the barriers? That they have always been undisturtable, or who try to hide insecurities, such as when a professional approaches someone with the title of their profession, perhaps for fear of not seeming so capable or, even sadder, considering that their title gives them the power to underestimate the ideas of those who are not in their field or who do not have an education , as if reflection were limited only to those who studied.
When this assumption comes to mind, I feel sad, I regret that they are not predisposed to learn from all the situations they find themselves in and from all the people they have the opportunity to meet in life. I don’t agree with what’s in front of you, but what we think and feel should be used as a filter to ask ourselves if what’s coming back deserves a place in our idea corner or just should be avoided.
Take off your raincoat, be permeable and let your discretion decide what to wear and what not, do not choose a rigid attitude that limits your mind and your relationship with others, because if your goal is not to feel uncomfortable, you should know that this is hardly achieved, because emotions are able to cross any barrier.