You have to accept when a stage of life ends. If you insist on staying, you run the risk of losing the joy and meaning of life. Call it what you want: close the cycles, close the doors, close the chapters; the important thing is to close them and move on.
We cannot live in the present thinking of the past and not constantly ask ourselves: Why did this happen to me?We cannot be children or teenagers forever, nor employees of non-existent companies or connections with people who do not love us.
Problems arise and we have to let them go!
One day, suddenly, a feeling of nostalgia invades you and you remember all the wasted time, the wasted minutes that never come back. Understand that time is our most precious asset; Time is life.
It is normal to remember the past; the harmful thing is to live with open emotional wounds that prevent us from walking, living the present and enjoying everything we have.
Believing that the past was better is a guarantee of emotional suffering in the present, does this belief prevent us from letting go and letting go?And we can plunge into a deep abyss.
This is how emotional vertigo arises, which prevents us from forgetting the past, healing our wounds and living the present.
Some people think that looking back is a waste of time; the important thing is to live the present, in this way the emotional sorrows of the past accumulate creating a mountain of increasing pain.
Imagine that an allergic person is used to sweeping all the dust from the house under the carpet, thinking it won’t affect you.
That’s the thing about emotional wounds. We need to free ourselves from the chains that hurt us, so that the wounds do not get worse. What you are today is the fruit of your past, good or bad.
Examining your inner being, you will not be able to change the past, but you will understand the negative parts and you will not allow them to disturb your present, it is very painful, but it leaves room for the new one.
Overcoming fear of the past is the only way to end this suffering
It’s worth trying to heal the wounds of the past, get rid of its burden and realize what oppresses it.
Imagine dropping a balloon; The ropes that hold it loosen, until completely loosened. Let go, looking up at the sky until you lose sight of it, smiling and feeling a lot of peace.
If it doesn’t bring joy to your life? Launch
If that doesn’t make you happy? Launch
If he stays by your side, but doesn’t bring anything good?
Looking for security to avoid development effort?
If you don’t recognize your qualities? Launch
If you don’t love it? Launch
If that doesn’t help you succeed? Launch
That said, but isn’t it? Launch
If there’s no place in your life for you?
Are you trying to change it? Launch
Is that scary? Launch
If they’re more discordant than right?
What if you make him suffer?
Free yourself: the loss will be much less painful than the pain of clinging to what has been and is no longer.