We all know that love has a thousand ways of expressing oneseed, and we are all likely to know someone who expresses their love differently from ours; however, this doesn’t make it stop being love. Sometimes we will also find people who seem to disagree; in this sense, the key is that they use different languages of love or a form that is unknown to us.
Love, like language, has many nuances. That’s why Gary Chapman, in 1995, dedicated himself to describing the 5 types he believed might exist in the language of love, both in the way he expressed it and in the way he received it.
- Generally we have two types of language with which we feel more comfortable expressing ourselves and with which we better understand the love that comes to us.
- There may be the possibility that we express love with one type of language.
- But we prefer another to receive it.
- The 5 languages of love described by this author are:.
Physical contact is one of the simplest languages of love to communicate, since it does not need words, people who prefer this language like to embrace, embrace and comfort the the arms of others or the hand. Young children, when the type of language prevails, feel relief when they hold or hold, miser or sit on each other.
Older children (especially boys between 7 and 9 years old) who show this kind of love can express it in a unique way, whether it be through fights, brawls, soccer, basketball, but physical contact is still what it does. that they feel loved.
When words are important love is written in that language, here are people who need words of affection, praise, calmness through good speech, motivation with well-written fragments, their way of expressing themselves will be more defined with love letters, in which they will feel free to express with words everything they feel.
Words have incredible power in us and leave their mark on our behaviors, even if they are fleeting, make us aware of the power we have through words, they make us create a new world to express and receive affection and affection.
Giving time to the people we love is a way to express how we feel about them, to look for quality moments in our full and full schedules, dedicated in body and soul to the person who accompanies us, in this way what needs to be done is no longer so important and whoever does it becomes more important.
There are people who like to give and be presented, they do not need to be material or valuable objects, here time will be relevant to think about what to give away, the love with which you give yourself up and allow you to know more about the person. through the details. The gift will be a way of expressing each other’s love, but never a way to achieve anything.
This category describes the actions or tasks that the other person performs as a means of communicating what he or she feels, the examples that come to mind are diverse: preparing food with love, taking care of the house in which he lives, taking care of others when they get sick. They’re simple acts, but they show interest in each other.
Knowing the five languages of love that this author has described, perhaps it is easier to see now that love is not always expressed in the same way for and for everyone, that love has different languages and that knowing them opens doors to know how to love. with more letters.