No one is obliged to be with those he no longer loves, and no one deserves to maintain a relationship that is failed by appearances and to be accountable to society. It’s impossible to be and make someone happy when you stay where there’s no love. Thus, when one chooses to stay and be together, there is a need to love with words, attitudes, looks and gestures. Love with truth and reciprocity, which makes everything even more delicious and beautiful.
Unfortunately, on several occasions, on the part of the children, some people continue to drag a marriage that has already ended, assuming that the separation would do a lot of harm to those directly involved. It is not uncommon for their children to suffer greatly, for example, there are people who cannot free themselves from a relationship that only causes them pain, sadness and despair, choose not to live, because they soothe their feeling of guilt for having failed in love.
- However.
- If we have a bankrupt marriage.
- At the expense of our smiles and our twinkle in our eyes.
- It will be impossible to hide our misfortune from anyone.
- Especially children.
- To think that they will not understand the reality of what is going on with their parents means that they underestimate the minimum of common sense and intelligence.
- Children are strong and able to understand our choices.
- No matter how long it takes.
- Because they also want their parents’ happiness.
Yes, it is undeniable that we prefer to see our parents together, but together and happy, the house is the place where we rest our fears, where we rest our storms, where we rest our energies, nothing better than to have a home to return to by the end of the day, where love settles naturally and truely, our parents are role models for us and seeing them together really makes us believe in the magic of love , the healing and relief that this feeling entails in your field. .
However, this example can also be given when parents are brave enough to realize that they will no longer be able to live together and will have to separate. A mature and conscious rupture, after all, conveys important lessons to children, such as the need to relentlessly seek one’s happiness, because without it no one will be able to remain whole, and the ability of the human being to start over while tomorrow is there, because to love is also to let go of the other, to be happy, even if it is far away. It involves love, yes, especially yours.
Just as the love of parents together is beneficial, all that love has built and respect between father and mother, even if they separate, will always be an example of life for children. Love is the example, but love with truth and respect. love that respects each other’s space, love that cares, love that bears fruit. Even the affection that endures when love ceases, but that remains in all, to remind us that we must never stop loving.
The title of this article is a quote attributed to J. Kemp.