I want to ask you one thing: don’t argue with your loved ones about your ideology, don’t think that because he thinks differently from you about something, this person who has seen your tears and joys is further away from you.
Don’t get involved in endless discussions to show that your opinion is the most correct or that your thoughts are bolder. Don’t build a wall of mistrust between you and the people who know your soul, simply because you think their ideas can fight yours.
- Don’t destroy a true friendship.
- Built over time.
- By different ideas about life.
- Because it’s not worth it.
- As you speak of resentment.
- Those who created these divisions give and smile.
The best ideology and the best way to understand the world a person can have is based on the reality of love and affection given to them by people who go through their lives.
You may have world visions that seem antagonistic to you, but if you love and respect it, if it’s a nice companion, ask yourself if it’s really worth destroying this friendship.
There is a fundamental mistake that we all make when we communicate: we believe that all the words we hear are born from the other person’s heart, when they actually come out of their lips.
Sometimes we say things without thinking, we give opinions on topics we don’t know, simply because we believe in positioning ourselves and appearing in front of others.
We confuse simple words or gestures with statements of intent, with harmful comments, and customize in ourselves what we have already experienced through the opinions of others.
Talking to friends about different topics is fine and necessary, even if opinions are different, the exchange of ideas is therapeutic, stress-free and allows us to see life from different angles.
“He who knows the power of the word pays special attention to what he says. Do you look at the reactions that provoke your words, because you know that they do not return to the same point without causing any effect ?.
-Florence Scovel Shinn-
Talking is an art that should not become a struggle, especially with loved ones, if there are misunderstandings, we can speak in a proper tone, listening carefully and never imposing your ideas on others.
Sometimes we cross the line between a simple conversation and engage in a discussion that takes us further than expected, but in reality we must take into account popular saying: “words fly away” because it is the facts that demonstrate our intentions. and feelings.
You may have offended someone with the words you said, but on other occasions you’ve already proven otherwise with the way you act.
This person may be disappointed and suffer from what you have said when you would actually do anything to help her and not make her suffer.
Despite all the ideas and reflections that seduce us, there is none that can give us love and comfort like the people who love us.
“Sometimes being friends means mastering the art of knowing the moment. There is a time for silence, a time to let go and allow people to do whatever they want with their own destiny. And there’s a time to get ready to assemble the pieces. “Once it’s all over?-Gloria Naylor-
There’s no ideology you can call at any time because you’re sad, listen to it on the phone to help you calm down and try to understand what you mean by your strangled voice.
There is no ideology to replace a mother’s royal embrace when she sees her son return home after a long absence, no ideology to replace your lover’s kiss and passionate gaze.
So, before you lose someone you love to an ideology, think about what really makes you strong, happy, and happy before it’s too late.