We faced situations at some point in our lives, which if we could, we would never live. Those who have not felt immense pain and their hearts tear when they hear, “I no longer love you,” “I don’t love you. “I don’t feel the same way you do, ” “I’m in love with someone else. “At that moment, our world collapses, do we lose interest in work, friends, family?But the reality is different.
Have you ever felt that way? I did it a couple of times, and unfortunately it almost destroyed me, in this moment of desolation and pain, I thought I had to face the situation as an opportunity to learn, know myself, become a better person and learn. When my mother said to me, “My son, I feel that you are more loving to me and more interested in life,” I realized that I had managed to overcome separation, I thought I could move on, that Life kept me happy moments, and that I had many experiences to live.
- Even if you meet other people right after the breakup.
- You will realize that this is not the case and that this process takes longer and is more painful than expected.
- A love is forgotten with another love.
- It is not so true; At least in the short term.
When we are abandoned, our first reaction is to try to regain our relationship and bring back their loved one, we are vulnerable and we are trying to find a reason for dismissal, we feel guilty that we have done something wrong, that we are not good enough, and that we could have said more often “I love you”. But only time can heal wounds and relieve pain.
Then comes acceptance. ” What am I going to do, since he doesn’t love me anymore?Of course, will I find anyone else? It’s good to think so, but acting calmly is paramount, because many people think they’ve overcome and believe they can maintain a friendly relationship with their ex, but when they see him walking hand in hand with someone else, emotional and psychological shock can be devastating. This path can be long, painful and tedious. It’s time to invest all the time for your well-being, to find friendships and thrive both personally and culturally.
It is not possible to determine how long it takes, because each person reacts differently. When successful, all difficulties and pains will be overcome. You’ll think of your ex-pair with nostalgia, remembering the good times they spent together. Find a new love and let yourself move on. If you think you will never be able to overcome the loss, think about the past and ask yourself: Did I breathe, eat, smile and live normally when I was alone and before I met someone?No doubt about it! Always remember that we are our best company.