Knowing how to quit at the right time is one of the keys to moving forward and for new things to appear in your life, if you stick to something that’s not possible or doesn’t work, you’ll be blocked.
Let’s imagine a mountain path. If you walk and your goal is to collect blackberries, you will see a thicket with all kinds of blackberries, some will taste better than others.
- This way.
- No matter what you find along the way.
- You’ll keep picking blackberries.
- Some will be good and some won’t.
- But you’ll keep walking around looking for new bushes.
- Some will be easy to find and others require a little more effort.
Now let’s say you’re in a fantastic bush, with spectacular blackberries, but you can’t harvest them. Try several strategies, but none have an effect.
The attempts are great, but when you see that it is not possible, the best thing you can do is to quit, if you insist more than enough, you will no longer walk, you will park and stay there, not being able to reach these blackberries, but looking out the window.
You cling to the inaccessible bush and you think no one else will be the same, so it’s not moving forward. The scrubbing example can be applied to various areas of life.
You may have always wanted something that couldn’t be, but if you knew how to quit smoking and move on, you’ve certainly found new opportunities.
When something doesn’t suit you, for whatever reason, let him go and put your goal in other goals and other ways, I’ve seen countless cases where the person closes all the doors he finds in his way and doesn’t find new opportunities.
For example, the extreme case of a girl in love with a boy with who couldn’t have a relationship, knew it wouldn’t be possible, but still, instead of breaking contact and meeting new people, closed herself to the world and assumed a monotonous life from home to work and work at home.
She said she’d never fall in love again. The problem is that she didn’t realize that things don’t come alone, you have to look for them, in fact, 10 years later, she still didn’t fall in love with anyone and she was still in love with the same guy she was with. who I couldn’t have anything to have.
His wish was granted: he could never love another boy; but that’s because she herself hasn’t done anything to open herself up to new opportunities. If nothing is done to meet new people, no one will ever enter our lives again. Thus, the attachment is created from inactivity.
The biggest problem for people is thoughts that encourage inactivity, like “Will I never meet someone like that?”, “Will I not find a boyfriend ?, will I not find good friends ?, no one will love me?Etc.
That kind of thinking stops the person. Opportunities don’t usually come alone, you have to look for them, and if a door closes, you can open many more, never let negative thoughts stop you from opening new horizons.
There is a long way to go in life, where we can find many unexpected things, if something goes wrong no problem, you can always do it again.
Go looking for what you want, chase your dreams and leave what can’t or can’t be, only then will you have the opportunity to find what you can really achieve