What are the first times we all love so much?What’s so special about this first moment we all want?What’s so magical about this tingling in your stomach without knowing what’s going to happen, about something new?This is the magic they hide the first few times.
The first work, the first meeting, the first visit to a new city, the first time we see a film, all these situations involve a new experience that involves uncertainty and arouses fear, doubt, but also desire, surprise and the thousands of emotions that accumulate and make our legs falter as we propel ourselves forward.
- When we face something for the first time.
- We generate a mental plan.
- We feel like starting.
- We imagine how it’s going to happen.
- What’s going to happen.
- What it’s going to bring us.
- And it creates in us an engine that drives us and motivates us to show others our best version of the new.
The first few times they hide thousands of secret doors, thousands of windows that we don’t know, but we open them, if we overcome the first fear that protects us, we overcome barriers and discover new horizons. full of magic, because even without knowing what’s behind it, we’re still with our best tools.
There’s magic, once you know what’s going to happen at work or when you meet the person you’re going to stay with or even when you know how your meeting is going to happen today, you lose some of the illusion the first time. As Rafael Santandreu said, if we face situations with an open mind the first time, we could discover something new every day, with the same enthusiasm, the same desire and the same strength as when we first did it.
An example of the magic of the early days, as this author says, can be seen, for example, in students who have spent a season making an exchange. When the year begins, you find yoursed in front of a lot of new people, a new city. to discover, adventures, so many good expectations for a year that will be great, but over the months do you get to know a part of the unknown?and the return journey seems to be an ever closer reality on the horizon.
Leaving aside the experience we can have in the places we go through, the city in which we live every day has corners that we do not know, there are thousands of activities that bring us closer to new people or alternative plans. you manage to do things with the magic of the early days and face the illusion of having a new city to discover, the power of the early times awaits you every day.
The illusion of the first few days is not in the situations, but in the enthusiasm and attitude with which we face them, we build magic, so why not get up every day and build our first time?
Every day hides the magic of not knowing what is going to happen, but if we look with our eyes at what we already know, if we no longer give or expect the best of each day, we will not be able to see the wonders of a new day We can find out how the day will start, but not how it will end.
The first few times they also hide nervousness, fears, doubts, perhaps in future experiences we have learned from this and will be confronted with new emotions and new tools that will reduce that uncertainty that slows us down and that we can continue to improve.
Let’s plan a day with new first times: let’s take the bright side of the second times, we believe in magic to live with one’s illusion As if it were the first time?and do it with the passion of a ‘as if it were the last’. Let us not let the emotion and smile of uncertainty be lost the first time, even if it is the third, fourth or tenth.