Trust is like a fragile, transparent glass bridge that lifts our lives, it’s probably taken a long time and effort to build, and that’s why it’s so appreciated.
However, despite so much work and so much happiness, it is often destroyed in seconds by our recklessness, selfishness and selfish attitudes.
- When a feeling as important as trust is broken.
- Something in us fades.
- Because the lie casts doubts on a thousand truths.
- Making us question even the experiences we thought were totally sincere.
Even if the lie can reach unexpected limits, the truth always arises. As we said, it’s faster to catch a liar than a lame man, because his words and actions can’t be sustained.
In any case, the fact that everything falls by its own weight does not mean that the blow is not blunt and painful; in fact, it’s normal for the opposite to happen and for lying and betrayal to end up being a before and after. then in our lives.
“A bird perched on a tree is never afraid that a branch will break, because your trust is not in the branch?And yes on your own?”
It’s common to hear that “if you’re betrayed once, it’s the other’s fault, but if you get betrayed twice it’s your fault. “The thing is, this statement contains a lot of truth, but you also have to look at it carefully.
In other words, the idea is that we learn from our mistakes and not repeat them, but at the end of the day, we should never feel guilty about being deceived How are you going to take responsibility for what others do?Crazy.
However, it’s likely that this has haunted you more than once, making you feel stupid when you fall into the net of someone who was “already showing up. “In this sense, it is very easy to relate the facts when the house has already fallen. and it’s fragmented.
We are neither fortune tellers nor infallible, furthermore, others are not perfect, and in some cases, you have to think that the right people make mistakes too, so you should also be open to forgiveness.
“After a while, you will learn that the sun burns if you do an exaggerated pose. You’ll even accept that good people can never hurt you and that you’ll have to forgive them. Will you learn that talking can relieve the pain of the soul?you’ll find that it takes years to build trust and a few seconds to destroy it and that you can also do things you’ll regret for the rest of your life.
? William Shakespeare?
Ingratitude and betrayal hurt especially when they involve the people we love and have around us, such as our spouses, friends or family, when this happens, anger, helplessness and anger begin to appear on stage, forcing us to leave our roles.
It is also very painful (and woefully very common) for someone to do something for us in the hope of receiving something else from us. This kind of betrayal breaks our structure and plunges our emotional world into chaos.
However, even if betrayal is profoundly hurting your heart, it doesn’t make much sense to change the way you are because you’ve been hurt and attack others out of revenge or out of spite.
Incredibly, this reaction is quite common when he?Emotional damage: it’s open and infected. Similarly, just because someone did this to you, there’s no point in dressing in armor in front of everyone around you, just protect yourself from the traitor.
Security, candor, sincerity and loyalty in our relationships are a fundamental pillar in maintaining our growth. However, doubts, suspicion and lies only hurt us, burn us and poison us.
Therefore, although mistrust stabbed us deeply, we are all able to overcome it, it is normal for doubt to grow in these situations and, with it, mistrust, but this should not represent an opportunity to suspect others.
In other words, since we can find ourselves in this undesirable situation more than once, we must understand that this is an opportunity to grow as a person and to better choose the people around us.