How much weight does your body carry?In life only the essences, the love of oneself and others, the feelings offered with respect and altruism are worth. The other accusations that make us prisoners in a world too brief for daily suffering?
We know it’s not easy, how often do we repeat that?So leave everything and do what you really want?How do you do something like that, though? Sometimes something like this would be little more than a dramatic act, in which we let go of many things and even people.
- Like everything in life.
- We must know how to maintain a healthy balance.
- Each of us has a basic essence.
- Pillars that we cannot renounce: family.
- Children.
- Work that guarantees the home and food?.
You can’t break everything to start over if, at some point, we feel saturated. However, within these basic pillars, there are things we can change and even “let go”.
You have to put aside the priority you give to others more than yourself, you have to put the value of emotions and good times before worries, pressures and if, in this personal landscape, this micro-universe that defines and surrounds us. , there is someone who hurts us and poisons our present, so we must also break the bond.
For our health, for our personal balance? Today we think of the “real concept of strength”.
If we look in the dictionary for the meaning of? We will discover several definitions that should make us think. First, we have the concept of “strength and vigour. “
There is also the image of “fortified enclosure, like a castle or a kingdom”. But at the same time, we also read that it is a “cardinal virtue of overcoming fear and avoiding frightening behaviors,” and that’s where we should stop.
Often, when we meet someone and ask them the common “How are you?”, he tells us, for example, that he has a boss who doesn’t treat him very well, that he barely has time for his children, that his partner has to become someone demanding and selfish, who can barely look in the mirror.
We, concerned, cannot say more than one “Attention!”, Being possible to read on our face many things besides the words that are said. And, in fact, we can also see them as strong people, because they face day-to-day life bravely, giving everything for others. As much as possible, however, there will come a time when they end up falling.
And the fall may not be physical, but emotional: dissatisfaction, feeling “paralyzed”, without the possibility of personal development. They are people who have given everything for others, who love sincerely, but who receive nothing in return. before them without even giving them a taste for simple happiness?
Returning to the definition of the force dictionary as a virtue to overcome fear and escape the feeling of fear, we could also add that a person is not strong simply by running away or overcoming what he fears.
Being strong also means putting yourself first and getting to know yourself as the owner of your life, letting go of what is sometimes bad or prevents you from moving forward with integrity and balance.
? To be strong is to wake up every morning and find something that makes sense to us, something that makes us dream from the moment we put our feet on the ground after getting out of bed.
? The world, believe it or not, is also full of “lifeless people,” beings who wander without purpose, without hope or project. Having a dream and dreaming for ourselves offers us a life project, offers them strength and integrity.
? Strength is also not the one who has the power, who has the ability to control or dominate others. To be strong is also to appreciate our freedom, to avoid toxic attachments that harm us and prevent us from growing.
? To be strong is also to know how to say NO to those who prioritize only themselves, to those who see only their own navel and their own universe, without realizing the suffering of others or the emotional vacuum that their attitude causes.
? You’ll be strong if you also dare to give up what doesn’t make you happy, whether it’s people, things, scenarios or even thoughts, because sometimes, it doesn’t just hurt us outside, sometimes our own attitude toward certain things can impose on us. walls and barriers above us.
Break with everything around your life, taking your breath away and your heart hurting. You are the protagonist of this ephemeral life, where we are only brief tenants, so he loves the one who deserves it very much and cultivates this strength that gives wings to your life. dreams and roots to your values
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